Came so close to relapse this morning - as close as possible without actually taking the plunge. Woke up early, couldn't get back to sleep, one thing led to another until I sat literally one click away from porn. Thank God I snapped out of it. I'm still going, day 5.
Today day six starts...with almost no urges to watch any content....with no urges for m.o..... i am keeping myself busy in household works and workout....and my exams are going to start, hope to stay quite and strong enough.....still i got no rank among u...
Bad relapse today .... gf got a phone call during sex that made her really stressed and she had to go. I hadnt orgasmed yet so I just went on porn sites while she was sitting next to me. She freaked out telling me it was really humiliating and disrespectful and she left. It was a bad moment but overall I feel way stronger and better than 15 days ago. Almost a hobbit but now back to an Orc. Stupid question: how do I reset the badge timer?
Near the top of the page, under the NoFap logo in the navbar you'll see "Update Day Counter". That takes you to the page where you can reset/alter it.
She's right about it being humiliating and disrespectful towards her. Porn is never a solution. Maybe you both could try to avoid distractions in the future. Regardless, you're making progress. Learn out of your mistakes and keep going!
I agree with @FellowCompanion above. Being completely present during intimacy is better, if you can find a way to be candid with each other. I would be disappointed if a sexual partner answered a phone call. Ideally, smartphones ought to have no place in the bedroom, even as alarm clocks
Have completed the damn 10 days on this path.Being Indian I have read a lot about Vivekananda and his philosophy on Brahmacharya and abstinence from PMO and thus have decided to stay on this path lifelong cause I wanna achieve lots of success and also want people to remember me as a Noble being.
Day 16 today! Apologies, I did not check in yesterday, but I believe I have reached the Hobbit stage of this challenge!
Welcome to Middle Earth brother . Let´s do this!!! "One thread to rule them all, Nofap to guide them, One strenght to bring them all, And from pmo release them"
i think it was a good relapse in terms of awareness. now you really know what your partner thinks about porn. so in that sense it helped you to grow. The situation of interrupted intercourse is very rare to happen, however since that happened, you should definitely have a backup plan for it, in case it happens again
Indeed brother. Here´s some Old Toby, you deserve it Now get your stuff ready cause you´re about to leave the tranquility of Bag End, into the Despair of the World. Good luck!!!