Questions About Reboot

Hi guys,

first of all sorry if there is already thread like this.
I’m 22 years old guy. I had only one sex one year ago. I had blowjob a lot of times but sex only once. My problem is that I’m experiencing erectile dysfunction because of porn. I was watching porn and jerking almost every day, sometimes more that once per day. This was here with me for about 6 years. Last year I met one girl and when we wanted to have sex, I was not able to be hard down there. I was like ok, maybe I’m just tired or nervous. One week again, same thing happened. I broke up with that girl because I was not feeling like a man. Some months ago I met one girl, from beginning it was only about sex. Again, I was not able to do it because my dick was not hard. Then I founded this that I can be addicted to porn. It have to be true, because I am able to get hard on porn, but it have to be something “more” than just regular sex.
Now, I’m still relapsing every week or every second week. But now I need to fight with it. I have a girl, she is great, I love her. Today we wanted to have our first sex. I was a little bit nervous but it was ok, I want to make it perfect because that will be her first sex ever. I was able to be hard when we were kissing and when she used her hand, but when she stopped jerking me for 30 seconds my dick was soft. I was not able to put my dick inside her, I was feeling like nobody. She was like dost worry, next time but I’m scared that this will be same again.
I need to talk to her, I will tell her that I have this problem on we need to wait with our sex at least for 90 days. But I want to ask you guys. When we are kissing, my dick is wet. I mean, is this ok? Because I will not cum for 90 days, but when my dick is wet is that ok? Because when we are kissing or I’m using my fingers, I like that in horny and my dick is wet, but soft
I need to stop watching porn and masturbate, I know it. She is worth it. but when I want to be on PMO - is that wet dick ok?

Thank you all for your replies, I hope this topic is ok and I did not write nothing wrong.

 

I will try. For me there is only one thing I need to achieve and that is normal sex life. I hope she will understand and not leave me.

 

Hi again,
I want to ask one thing. I don’t know if i have PIED or it is only in my head. I’m getting morning wood, also random erections trought day, i was hard from kissing with my girl. What if i have problém with my head, because i’m not experienced, I had sex only once. So maybe problem is with my head overthinking.. what do you think?

 

Thank you guys for all replies.
Ok I will try to.. no, I will nofap for 90days and also I will cut porn from my Life, but what with my girl? We are together for 1 week and I don’t want to break up or something, shoud I tell her that we need to wait 3 months at least to have sex? And can I lick or finger her but She can’t do anyiting to me, because Im doing no PMO? wet part was About precum or how its called. My dick is wet when im kissing her or licking or anyithing with her..
I was trying to have sex with her last time but I was not able to get it up.

 

It’s fresh with her, so I don’t know if I want to say it to her. Shes 10/10 so I don’t want to lost her. She is a virgin and damn shes horny this will be hard

 

Hi guys,
I want to ask do you have dome experience with drugs for erection? this weekend I will be with my girl in my house and I’m feeling great, I think I will be able to fuck her, I can feel that. But If i’m wrong, I would like to have prepared pills for erection. Is that good idea?

 

Yes I know, I have to tell her. I will tommorow when she will be with me.. i hope she will accept that.

 

Today I told her. She was like: “if it’s fixable, together we can fix that’. Then we tried to have sex, it eas hard to hold him up, but somehow I managed to have erection and we had sex. It was like 30 seconds but worth it

 

Ok but what now? What if I will fail next time? I already cutted off porn from my Life, not watching that for long time. I relapsed today while we had sex.

 

We had sex and I cummed. I relapsed from sex.