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[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. HarveySpectre1998

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    Thanks bro, means a lot!
     
  2. georgebou7

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    Thank you a lot for these nice words. You help me through these perspective, i hope as i am young to improve my self esteem.
    I will check this link. I have read this mark Mansons book and i find it life changing. It is very simple and someone could apply easily his theories and suggestions. I loved it. Especially it helps me a lot to think that every person has its own problems and this thought make me less self centered. I suggest it to everyone here!!!

    Thank you a lot again @hermitthefrog !! This forum generally and all the guys are very helpful. I wish for everyone to accomplish our goals and this challenge!!
     
  3. HarveySpectre1998

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    Thanks for the video. It was really helpful. I am taking the 30 day challenge and I'll be back when I'm done with it. See you soon!
     
  4. Thanks for sharing this. Very helpful
     
  5. the_wizard

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  7. Lamboskovich

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    Hello,

    Day 28/90

    Approaching the 1 month milestone.

    Today I went food shopping at Wal-Mart. If there’s one place I regularly visit that is filled with temptation; Super Wal-Mart is that place.

    After a 2 month long quarantine, many women make a grocery store run an opportunity to validate their ego and bring attention to themselves. I won’t go into details, because I don’t want to cause myself or others to stumble.

    Let me just say this, the temptation was unavoidable. It was outside of my control. I can’t snap my fingers and order all women to stay at home when I enter the the store, or to prohibit them from passing in front of me.

    Here’s what I can and did control. I was extremely careful and cautious with my attention and what I allowed myself to focus on. I was extremely efficient with my time. I had my grocery list app open and wasted no time. The point is to not allow yourself to linger somewhere that is saturated with temptation. Be intentional with your thoughts and your attention. You are in charge!

    Hope this was helpful,

    To Your Success,
    Lamboskovich
     
  8. Srisurya

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  9. Merry Terry

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    Day 4. I joined this forum 224 days ago. Of those 224 days, I was 199 days without M’ing to P.

    I started my day with this amazing message:


    When everything seems fine, when PMO and depression and suffering seems far away, we are laying the seeds for the next wave, the next urge, unless we radically change the way we think and act. I'm realising more and more that my PMO addiction is a symptom, and I will never rid myself of it unless I fix the cause.
     
    Last edited: Jun 15, 2020
  10. bromor

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    Day 64 No M
    Day 169 No P

    And another one! Have a great one guys!
     
  11. Starman123

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  12. Merry Terry

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    I just wanted to say, when reading your post I think I can detect some judging when you talk about the women in the supermarket. That the way they look and dress is a way "to validate their ego" and how you describe them as temptation. And I want to point out that this type of thinking can very easily tip over into misogyny. Into thinking that these women are evil for tempting you.

    But the fact that you see them as temptation, is something that originates with you. They are a temptation in your mind. A woman may or may not want to be seen as beautiful by you - and actually I think about 90% of the time women probably just want to be left alone when they're in the supermarket. But even if they want to look beautiful and be considered beautiful, that's their right and it doesn't mean they want to be desired by you. You desire them, but that's a construction that you make in your head.

    So yes, you are in charge of your thoughts and your attention. Just be aware that this thought that these women are tempting you is also just a thought, something that you create separately from whatever the intentions of these women are. They are just human beings like everybody else and they are free to do whatever they want like everybody else. If we get crazy from desire, that's our problem that we have to fix.

    I'm sorry if I read you completely wrong, though! Just ignore this if it doesn't apply to you. I just know from experience that doing nofap and struggling with desires can lead to having a low opinion of women and this is really a bad way of thinking and I feel that needs stressing sometimes - if only to remind myself of it.
     
  13. 4/90 Smart working and keeping myself busy ;)
     
  14. Day 2/90
    Total clean days - 16
    Total relapses - 5
    Total hours remaining - 2101
     
  15. Golden-Balls

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    Day 62:)
    Something strange is happening.

    For the last two days I have been getting triggers from just seeing a cock mount a hen. It's has just started. I don't really understand why.
    I used to watch some animal porn but that was some time back. Could it be the causes of these triggers..
    when I see the animals mount each other I almost get an erection.
    Which part of rebooting is that?
     

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