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[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. lookingtochange

    lookingtochange Fapstronaut

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    Day 42/90. Feeling a real consistent happiness to myself that I'm not sure I've ever felt. My insecurities have faded away and things seem to be going well. I've found some things I really enjoy doing and I have more things I'm interested in doing than time in a day to do them. Before it was the other way around. Still need to be very cognizant of my everyday thoughts and feelings.
     
    bromor, Swazzy 1, Pone and 11 others like this.
  2. Gurdev Thakur

    Gurdev Thakur Fapstronaut

    BIG MISTAKE
    I ENABLED THE SAFESEACH FOR MY BROWSER AND I GOT TO CHECK THE EXPLICIT CONTENT IS BLOCKED OR NOT , YUP ALL THE FAPPING CONTENT WERE BLOCKED ON GOOGLE DOMAINS BUT WHEN I CHECKED YOUTUBE THEY WENE NOT BLOCKED AND I WATCHED SOME NORMAL KISSING AND ROMANTIC VIDEOS OF PORNSTARS , THEY WERE VERY INSTIGATING , I DID IT UNINTESIONALLY AND NOW LOTS OF BAD THOUGHTS ARE COMING IN MY MIND AND URGES ARE ALSO STRIKING ME , WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW, I AM PROMISING TO MYSELF THAT I WILL NOT CHECK THAT THE PARENTAL CONTROL IS WORKING OR NOT AND WILL NOT SEARCH FOR FAP VIDEOS AGAIN EVER IN ANY CASE... GUYS PLEASE HELP ME THAT WHAT SHOULD I DO KNOW , I AM FEEELING VERY LOW AND SCENES OF THOSE VIDEOS ARE FLASHING IN FRONTR OF ME AGAIN AND AGAIN,,,, ALSO RECOMMEND ME THE PERMANENT SOLUTION TO BLOCK ALLL THE EXPLICIT AND SEXUAL CONTENT ON YOUTUBE ,, PLEASE HELP ME
     
  3. Merry Terry

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    Hey Blueface,

    First of all, would you maybe consider not writing in all-caps? It makes your posts quite hard to read. And I do want to read them!

    Second of all, Youtube has its own Restricted Mode, you can activate that when you're logged in by clicking your avatar in the top right corner and choose 'Restricted Mode' from the dropdown menu.

    Third of all, yes, try to avoid any 'normal' exciting content, because it always trips you up and causes a real relapse later. I have made that mistake countless times. Whenever you are looking at something because it distracts you and you look at it for excitement and dopamine, it's in essence the same as watching porn.

    And finally, what you describe from the scenes flashing in front of you is also very recognisable. There's not a lot you can do about that now, but know that when you direct your attention to something else, those images will slowly fade from your mind again.
     
    lookingtochange, bromor, Pone and 5 others like this.
  4. Merry Terry

    Merry Terry Fapstronaut

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    Guys, I would like your advice about my reason to quit NoFap. I have to keep reminding myself of them more often and more persistently. So I wrote it down today: I want to quit NoFap (and pursuing online distractions in general) because it enforces my wrong beliefs that I am worthless and powerless.

    Now, my question is: do you think this is a valid reason? Is it positive enough? Or should I dig deeper still?
     
  5. drpaddift28

    drpaddift28 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys it’s my new start , I myself describes a 28 year old educated porn addict and this is day zero but am gonna stick to this one wish me luck
    Reason for doing this is porn induced erectile dysfunction
     
    lookingtochange, bromor, Pone and 6 others like this.
  6. Merry Terry

    Merry Terry Fapstronaut

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    I can appreciate Jordan Peterson when he is talking about taking control of your life and your world. However, whenever he starts trash talking feminism and waving that nonsense 'cultural Marxists'-term, he loses me. I'll never understood why empowering some people (in his case, mostly, insecure young-ish men) somehow has to means demeaning others (like women)..
     
    bromor, Pone, Deleted Account and 2 others like this.
  7. Gurdev Thakur

    Gurdev Thakur Fapstronaut

    tysm for your valuable advice
     
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  8. Starman123

    Starman123 Fapstronaut

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    Your daily posts remind me of when I started nofap - my journal looked just like your posts here.
     
    bromor, Pone, testwarz and 3 others like this.
  9. Gurdev Thakur

    Gurdev Thakur Fapstronaut

    really ,,am i doing this nicely or kind of flaws are also here
     
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  10. Starman123

    Starman123 Fapstronaut

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    @BLUEFACEop I'd recommend reading books on porn harms because that way you are constantly reminding yourself why you are on nofap. This will help greatly during the first few weeks. Start with Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson - I think it's a must read for those trying to quit pmo.
     
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  11. Starman123

    Starman123 Fapstronaut

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    @BLUEFACEop Just to let you know, I only journaled for 3days.
     
  12. Starman123

    Starman123 Fapstronaut

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    @BLUEFACEop If you're constantly watching youtube videos, make sure to watch stuff that has no triggers in it - once your are maybe in the 30th day, you'll be in a better position to cut down on other distractions like youtube
     
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  13. Starman123

    Starman123 Fapstronaut

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  14. crazyhorse11

    crazyhorse11 Fapstronaut

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    Hi All,
    For accountability I'd like to share the fact that I looked up a sexual term in You Tube to see if there were any 'harmless' clips on that term. Thumbnails came up and about 2 or 3 of them were P, so I shut it down and went no further and felt like shit, like really guilty.

    I don't personally think this is a relapse, as I did not click in to any of the videos, but the fact that I went and looked in You Tube for a 'harmless' clip was the exact opposite of what we are trying to achieve here.

    Would one of the more tenured members be able to confirm to me that I am ok to continue on this stretch? I guess I am, but would like someone to help me by confirming.

    On Day 12 of no MO but on day 47 of no P.
     
    bromor, Pone, Deleted Account and 5 others like this.
  15. Tuinuane

    Tuinuane Fapstronaut

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  16. Robsoon

    Robsoon Fapstronaut

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    Do whatever you want to do. You're big boy. Find some meaning in your life and just do it regardless the cost. If your meaning is to be harming yourself punani by
    fapping then feel free to do it. If your meaning is to be a man and stand firm with your beliefs then be that men.
     
    bromor, Pone, Deleted Account and 4 others like this.
  17. Adam2020-

    Adam2020- Fapstronaut

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    Great
     
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  18. Nekkhamma

    Nekkhamma Fapstronaut

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    26 days done...now time to meditate, be there for someone else, get some exercise, and then work tonight. I find it easiest when I just simply get out of the way and let recovery do it’s work...let’s get just one more day...keep going, don’t give up :emoji_raised_hands:
     
    bromor, Swazzy 1, Starman123 and 8 others like this.
  19. lilsway

    lilsway Fapstronaut

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    I'm in! If I don't hold up to the challenge, I will pay 100$ to everyone that told me I couldn't do it!
     
    bromor, Swazzy 1, Pone and 5 others like this.
  20. georgebou7

    georgebou7 Fapstronaut

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    Day 0, i relapsed again.

    Severe anxiety is my problem. I am extremely stressful about a lot of things lately. Its very bad to try feel better thtough pmo. I felt very bad the last three days because of relapse, like depression and i know i have failed to get back on the track after the first relapse. I understand my problem and i am determined to be very strong by this day.

    I wish the best to all of you, you try very hard and every day is like a victory versus yours "comfort zone". Keep going!!! One day at a time!!
     
    bromor, Swazzy 1, Pone and 6 others like this.

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