My Pied is killing me... Advice?!

Hi, my friend. I have suffered from the same fetishes 5-6 years and my condition was similar to ED. After 15 days streak(now I am on 26 day) I am having all my morning woods and they become bigger (until this I often had morning wood but not always). So I bravely can say it really helps. I remember when I was on 36 days streak in January. My penis was then almostly completely regained and I had huge orgasm after this, similar to the first time when my penis elevated by an angle of maybe 120 degrees. But yeah, still my penis was really hard attracted to women's body, but my mind was starting to like normal stuff.

Everything now goes fine. I gained 5 kg (to me is really hard to gain kilos) in 3 months and masochism's mind is almost disappeared (but femdom shit is left, but I try as hard as possible to destroy this).

I can't offer what you should do, just talk about what helped me.

To me, it was to limit internet and technology usage (trust me, YT and social media fucks everything in our life, it is so huge addiction that may have an influence on your addictivity level; why you should have this shit?), meditating and taking a cold shower every day(first it will be easier, but then it won't be so bad and you will be really proud of yourself - I was always afraid of coldness), starting to train my body and having just time to sit and staring to window think about my feelings and demons. Try to change your mind, try to be more positive (I know it is really hard, but you must try this!). It is really important to find yourself in silence. It could sound stupid, but if you would really try it probably could help.

Think about yourself after year, 5 years and 10 years. This shit may destroy you completely if you will give up. You must to refuse this shit. Especially speaking about that feet fetish and femdom. I saw thousands of videos and were really addicted. I felt everything that you felt. I can say it isn't worth while have been abstaining 26 days from this shit.

GL buddy. You can always write to me. I wish somehow my writing will help you. Move forward!

 

You have to quit this habit for ever. I am being honest, 14 days is nothing... After a couple of months it starts to heal... Get yourself something to do... There s a long way but in the end it pays off. Have in my mind that you have been m for so long, 3-5 times a day is a lot to me, you won t be able to get rid of it soon. You gotta be patient and stick around!

 

Try to Complete 90days no porn , no masturbation ,no orgasm just stick to that , if it's really shrinked that much u may gain some length bro.
R u frm india.?

 

1. You won't have morning wood that lasts 1h ever.
2. Your penis does not shrink from masturbation nor from porn.
3. You won't get 6cm penis size from nofap. You will get exactly 0cm from nofap.
4. It is completely normal that penises aren't completely straight and yes they bend sometimes.
5. Concerning your fetishes : you have to find the emotional root cause for these desires. They are connected to porn addiction but in my case they reside deeper in my psyche.

Nofap helps you to overcome porn addiction and fetish addiction. Thats what you should look for. Watch the videos in my journal they contain a lot of information.

 

Man your size will be back don't worry. And yes your size can shriking because porn and masturbation , because you will have less blood flow. After your reboot your blood flow will be back and so on your size.

 

You can be sure that you have a lot of nocturnal erections (during sleep) if you are healthy. Having morning wood is a good sign of sexual health but you should not overemphasize this.

You can have sex even if you don't have raging morning boners... Your goal should not be to get 1h morning woods you know... Your goal should be to get over your addiction to porn and femdom...

 

Man, you're young! There's hope for you to get rid of PIED for good if you start now and cut out all the PMO and freaky fetishes shit (tentacles, etc). I am all for fetishes and encourage you to explore your sexuality with lady friends who also shares the same interests, but for now it is best to stay away from all porn. That is, all sexual stimulation that is not a living, breathing human.

As for size, it's likely smaller due to reduced blood flow. This is due to desensitization to porn; your brain just doesn't get as aroused as it used to from the same old stimulation (hence, seeking increasingly graphic or shocking fetish content). Of course, it is very common that you weren't able to become aroused with the real life femdom because, at least to your brain, she's not the same to the pixelated femdom you're used to. This will all change once you reboot (no porn, no masturbation, no organism) for a few months.

The hardest part is keeping up with the discipline. You cannot peek at sexy photos, or read erotic literature, or stimulate yourself sexually. Your body needs the absence of artificial stimulation (porn) to become sensitive to the real thing (human intimacy).

Start slow, if this is all to much. If you use porn 3x a day, then reduce to 1x a day. Then, go from masturbating 4x a week to only 1x a week. When you're ready to make the full jump to 90 days, you have a whole community of people here who are on the same journey

 

I can so sympathise.
I started all of this around 9.
I'm now 25, I have a spandex/ sports gear fetish, have zero interest in sex IRL (and I never did through my entire teenage years)
I have always been self-conscious of my penis size, both length and girth
I have never had because I know for a fact I won't perform
My last relationship ended because I kept making excuses not to have sex.

I was convinced I was asexual (who knows i might still be) until i found this site.
I would love a relationship ans family some day but can't see it happening due to my exclusive fetish and performance issues.

I am on day 4 right now and I will be sure to tell you how it goes!

 

Bro I am literally living the same life you described. I also am sot of worried about my dick size and the Dick's condition is also the same lol. It was 13 cm and now it shrinked to like 11.5cm. I also am 19 and I was also worried if me jacking off too much effected the growth of my dick. Please do tell me also if you seem to recover bro. I'm on my 10th day of nofap, hope it works.

 

yeah, i get fears of that stuff to, its sketch i dont like it, i just hope it passes and stuff as time goes on

 

Is there any news?

 

Do you believe that you'll recover from PIED by just waiting?