Am i introvert?

Why are you asking this question on a forum about PORN MASTURBATION ORGASM?
Do you think you are going to get any reasonably informed answer to this questions on any internet forum?
Do some work. Read a book on introversion. Talk to a therapist.

 

Introversion does not mean shy or anti-social, but that one finds one's energy in solitude, especially after having it drained from being in a group for a while, whereas an extrovert finds his energy in a group, almost siphoning it off other people (like vampirism - a crude analogy), and an extrovert starts to run down on his energy when alone for too long. Introverts think best when alone, whereas extroverts often need other people to bounce their ideas off of. Often when an extrovert speaks aloud among one or more people, he is really thinking outward and reasoning his ideas, trying to reach a conclusion. His speech is a stream of consciousness, not always ready conclusions in themselves, in other words. It can be important at times to recognize this when listening to an extrovert speak. Sometimes one can assist an extrovert in reaching his desired conclusion in the very dialogue, an extrovert's neediness. Introverts may be slower to speak when they are internally forming a conclusion first, and then only speaking aloud the concluding thought. Extroverts may seem like the life of the party, but then they can also get a little too loud for theirs or anyone's own good - that over-the-top laugh on a regular basis is often the sign of an extrovert. Introverts have gifts suited to careers that require focus and precision and working well on one's own, counseling, healthcare, listening to others, scholarship, writing, ministry. Introverts find inner tasks like prayer, meditation, solitary retreats, journaling, solitary hobbies, writing, research, reading, etc., enjoyable experiences. Introverts like their alone time, but it doesn't mean they are anti-social - they just need to get away from the group to refuel. It's important that an introvert sees this as a legitimate need and require others to respect their need for alone time and not be led into guilt or feelings of social inadequacy because it it. There is nothing inadequate about it. Both introversion and extroversion are simply different gifts in their own respective ways.

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I think it's a legitimate question, and I've seem similar questions many times on this site. It's most appropriate in a forum titled, "Self-improvement." Oftentimes we use PMO to self-medicate inner aspects of ourselves, especially when we don't have a firm understanding of our personality traits or if we've been wounded in any aspect of our inner lives. Often the road to overcome many addictions is to walk a deep inner journey to connect all our fragmented pieces and to better understand what makes us tick, and to arrive at self-appreciation and self-respect, instead of confusion, shame, or guilt. That kind of thing. It gets deeper even when all this is mixed up with our own experience of our sexuality and the manner that we interrelate with other people.

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He asked in the self improvement section so it's relevant. He just wants peoples opinions/views not a fucking medical diagnosis..

 

Hey man, I'm exactly the same as you in many ways.

Do you prefer to be alone rather than in a group? That doesn't mean you don't like to be surrounded by people but I mean you like to be alone with yourself ? Thinking about your life and trying to understand how things work?
Extroverts find it very hard to stay isolated because they get their energy from others. Introverts are much more focused on themselves. That's why they have difficulty connecting with people because they have purity inside. It's a kind of protection.

Do you feel that you are different from others? In reality everyone is different, but introverts, because of their ability to reflect, to question themselves and to do this work of introspection, are more aware of their deep identity. This is why they feel out of step with others. and different.

If you find it difficult to be yourself and you consciously or unconsciously try to please, to be accepted and not rejected, you are probably introverted.

Introverts have more social difficulties than extroverts. It makes sense, but they are the purest. An introvert who works hard on himself or herself will eventually outgrow an extrovert. This requires realizing and accepting one's deep identity. Beyond appearances.

 

No your not a introvert I think you just lack confidence or get anxious . If you have reddit I highly recommend you to join the Social skills forum and the confidence forum it gives that idea why your sometimes outgoing because RN I'm in a similar situation like you have a sudden urge to have a conversation with someone put my lack of confidence kick in.

 

INFP here, no one actually notices whether you're an introvert or not. If people make small talk to you, they pretty much do it to everybody. Meaning that it actually doesn't matter in society.

 

I'm an introvert... I'm not shy but I hate small talk and meaningless conversations... I want to connect on a deeper level

if talking to people drains you and being alone is like heaven to you, you are an introvert

but I dont know you and it can be totally different

 

All my life i thought i am the biggest introvert you´ve ever know since i get my ass out of my comfort zone and now i like small talk. People have an introvert and and extrovert side, the gap is individually.

 

I'm Introvert and there's nothing wrong with that. Period

 

Hey you can learn alot about personailty types here: https://www.16personalities.com
very fun and informative

 

I am an introvert and I love being an introvert. It’s where my strength is. I am great at research, writing and being thoughtful. But I also know I have to connect with people to further my life.