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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by corylife, Dec 22, 2019.

  1. blahblahblah100

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    Unfortunately back again. Wasn't going to post but needed you guys. I need help. I really want to make it at least 30 days before the end of the year. Please help me brothers and sisters.
     
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  2. matt2k12

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    I'm doing great, day 9 today. I haven't been further since august. Pretty confident I can do this. Yet I know I can fail at any second.
     
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  3. ThisSideThatSide

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    keep goin, you got this!!!
     
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  4. ThisSideThatSide

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    hey, sorry didnt see this before, im doing good!!
     
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  5. Ngo27

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    Hello, I'm new and on day 1 again. This month of No Nut November will be a tough one. I want to make it past 2 weeks at least this month. My goal is to make 30 days before 2021. Hope we all stay strong and overcome.
     
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  6. blahblahblah100

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    Failed again. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I’m tired of this. This feeling of defeat. This feeling of misery. I’m so unmotivated to do anything and all I want is to have someone to talk to. I don’t know what’s wrong but I just don’t want this anymore. I can’t handle a little basic urge anymore. It’s messed up. I’m so desperate to comment on reddit to talk to them it’s pathetic. I’m just miserable all the time and it sucks. Please don’t feel like this. Please avoid this perpetual destruction. I beg you all. Be better than me.
     
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  7. blahblahblah100

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    Failed again already. Pathetic. But I did go ahead and delete all of my accounts which is what I should have done before. Hopefully tomorrow is better than today.
     
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  8. Ngo27

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    Thanks for sharing your failed attempts. I'm on day 2 and urges seems to have changed over the past several months. My urges don't feel like cravings anymore...more like a lingering attachment to comfort of PMO. It seems easy to resist when my urges are like this, but I need to be aware of how I can easily be deceived into relapse.
     
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  9. Manhoodman

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    Hey Prison Mike, thanks for the check and am glad your doing well too. As for me today marks my 11th day without faping. Ever since I took this challenge seriously in February this is the longest I have gone. I might have cheated seeing as I have a girlfriend and that helped me pass the first week but I had her even before and still managed to come this far. I hope this is encouraging to someone to fight on and take control.
     
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  10. blahblahblah100

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    Day one done. On day two today. Feeling a little depressed. Don’t know why. But I guess it was expected
     
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  11. ThisSideThatSide

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    just keep going! do something that will deviate your mind from negativity when you feel depressed.
     
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  12. blahblahblah100

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    Thanks guy for all your support. Day two done. Still feeling pretty depressed but hopefully today is better
     
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  13. Prison Mike

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    Nice @blahblahblah100 keep it going, man.

    @Manhoodman nice streak, 13 is about my record. Room for improvement. Tough to keep it going past that point, you feel "cured", but you're not.

    @Ngo27 how's it going?

    @yrjyrj almost day 50?!
     
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  14. ThisSideThatSide

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    yes, hopefully!
    and howz your streak going?
     
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  15. Ngo27

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    I was able to find an accountability partner a few days ago. My streak is going on day 5, and there will be some waves of urges coming soon.
     
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  16. Manhoodman

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    @Prison Mike I just did 14 day streak then I relapsed. I am happy I was able to get there. Now my goal is 21 days
     
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  17. blahblahblah100

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    Thanks for the support! Another day gone. Still pretty down. Urges creeping. I objectify women so much it’s crazy and sickening
     
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  18. blahblahblah100

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    Messed up. Back to square 1. I’m depressed and have no idea what to do about it and resort to porn to make me feel good. I need help.
     
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  19. ThisSideThatSide

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    relapses are bad i agree.
    but dont watch porn. you know it is bad for you.you yourself said that you objectify women because of porn.
    just remember:
    "Feeling cold for a little bit and then feeling great for hours is a lot better than feeling hot for a little bit and feeling like shit for hours. Take your pick."
    fight the urge.
     
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  20. Prison Mike

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    Well said @yrjyrj ... @blahblahblah100 keep posting here as well, we'll try to help. Maybe set up your day counter? It helps me, I hate having to reset it after a relapse.

    10 days for me!
     
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