What was your motivation to start nofap?

Hi there! I am wondering how did you choose me to send me this very intresting note? I am just curious.

 

This streak? To increase my self-discipline.
My sub-goals are to find my identity and purpose in the world, which tie into my main motivation (as stated above) which is to have the strength to follow through with my purpose.
I also take cold showers everyday.

 

to get rid of guilt and fix personal issues and my relations with others

 

To increase testosterone and heal from post-finasteride syndrome.

 

I started NoFap because i thought it will release my mental pressure.
I was dumped by my ex gf for no reason and i waited for her almost 3years hoping she will come back. Can you imagine i wasted 3years of my life. I was already a loner so i started PMOing.
But 2months ago when i found her on instagram she blocked me.
I was like -"wow, that is how God is punishing me. I don't even know what my fault was and I am getting punishment."
Also over those years of PMOing gave me PE.
So i am doing NoFap to release my mental pressure(to forget about her) and also to cure my PE.

 

How is nofap supposed to help you forgetting your ex? I don't get it and i am curious to listen...

 

I don't know bro.
The only reason i went into PMOing was because of being neglected like garbage. And i haven't been able to think straight since.

I thought rebooting will give me a clarity of mind and maybe i will find a purpose in life rather than being a loner who was betrayed by friends and dumped by ex.

I read several posts saying how semen retention miraculously helped them. I have nothing to lose so i thought i might as well give it a try hoping for something miracle to happen.

You can call me a fool and I don't mind being judged for one silly reason to start NoFap coz no body knows anybody in real life.
However my other reason for NoFap is sonething that can be taken seriously.

 

Honestly I been trying to stop since I started and that was 25 years ago. Is hard to belive that pmo is the one thing that always gets me. So I have a 100 reasons to stop. But I think the thing that keeps me motivated the most, is that I wanto to be able to conquer the one thing that has beaten me for so long. And thats pmo. I dont know if im going to do it in this lifetime but im gonna try.

 

To improve my life and it was a time i was having very easy brain fog and bad marks at univerisity

Nofap improved alot my study

 

Yes brother. I know how it feels when you see the ones who hurt you are happy while you suffer in darkness. And that feeling attracts you towards greater darkness. For me it pulled me into PMO.
I hope after 90days or something like that i will see some improvement in me.

 

spending enough years alone was motivation for me to grow up and clean up

 

Hoping to really love someone and not the idea of someone. Hoping to experience, and prove, that it is possible to overcome, to live without secrecy, to live with peace and joy. Hoping to help others.

I've had times of being free of this in the past, but it came back, so I knew I needed to get more serious and joining NF would help.

All the best