[30-CHALLENGE] THE THIRTY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Day 4.
Fuck this masturbation. This year is gonna a new year.

 

Heyyyy..... It actually happens. The one and the only thing is to get over and move ahead. Just start the streak once again. You are not alone in the journey. There are a lot more

 

Day 5/30.

Keep rocking!

 

Day 1/30

Struggling rn

 

Hi Kuro Neko,

This is often a problem that befalls the Fapstronaut after he decides to "Take a peek" or "Fap only one time". It kind of puts him back into the whole mental headspace of PMO/Fap and all the associations.

Before this current streak I had over 100 days, I was doing everything right at the beginning of those days, but then I got complacent and stopped doing the helpful things because my brain "tricked me" into thinking that I am "Cured" of PMO...

I think there isn't such a thing as cured from PMO, PMO will always be an "option" for the addict - it will just become an option that he chooses not to engage in, on a minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day basis.

Because once he learns that manifesting his addiction, will only self-reinforce it, and put his soul in pain, then he becomes able to make strategies to side line the addiction. This can include, simply changing his scenery when thoughts of using happen.

It can mean putting this intense energy into something other than PMO. Have a "Baby", or give life to a project of your own that you can nurture and watch grow.

None of this stuff is at all easy in the slightest. If it were, then we would have many billions of Brahmachari in the world. The mere fact that you have joined the site means that you are in the less than ONE PERCENT of people that have even given Semen retention serious thought.

My head is unfortunately swimming with urges to download and view images and watch special interest videos. My "Chimp" (Lower self) wants this, but my "Human" knows that he must control the "Chimp" like the owner of a dog. See "Chimp Paradox".

There's a reason that they call it a "Practice", because we are all practicing. Keep practicing and it will make perfect. Falling into the trap is always possible, it's just the choices we make.

Try to have control over your mind - because all your actions originate in there. If your mind is constantly thinking of shortcuts to pleasure, then this will ultimately influence your actions.

Also, talk with other addicts. Try an SAA zoom group, or join a chat group and suggest doing some voice/video calls. You can physically meet people as well, (depending on whether you and they mutually agree that you are both willing to accept any perceived risks from a virus).

 

Nice motivation, thank you very much!

 

thanks for the great advice. I will try to control my thoughts and I have also found a suitable psychiatrist to consult

 

Check. Day 2/30

 

12/30

 

Day 3/30 complete, yeehaw.

@Gorgeous Idiot Hang in there; we've got your back. There's going to be struggle without a doubt, but that's also the only way there's going to be victory. Have you been exploring the site some more? Joining a group or an event challenge is a great way to mingle with experienced folks who know all the tips and tricks!

 

Day 2/30✅

 

Checking in. Day 2/30. Dont give up just yet everyone, I'm with all of you. Ganbatte.

 

3/30

 

Day 4 checking in

 

You should put on the NoFap day counter pal, could be easily set up from your profile page if I remember correctly.

 

Hi there, happy new-year. After relapsing from a 66-day streak of PM-free time, I 'm taking this challenge from scratch. I feel good about it. Never before had I managed to control my urges for so long. 0/30. See ya!

 

I have (through ducking and diving, and winging it) managed to attain a total of 30 days clean from this insidious beast. CHALLENGE COMPLETE.

Plus I have now transformed in all my other Challenges:

Interstellar - Diving into Wormhole
Jōnin - Shinobi Challenge
Oozaru - Super Saiyan Challenge

Onto the 60 day challenge next.

 

Checking in..
Day 2/30.

congratulations my friend and all the best for your upcoming good days..

 

@Gallade_Templar — thanks for the reply & words of encouragement. Yes, I've been taking a look around the site on my own but am open to any forums, groups and/or members you think might help.

 

@Brahmacharya_UK — congrats sir!