Dating during the 90 days challenge, should I date?

Surely it’s good to get a partner who can help you in this journey, and if you want to do stuff with her, it’s much better than you PMO on your own!!

I see no downside to finding a girl, I don’t understand what you mean by you need to heal before you find someone? What healing are you talking about? How has PMO made you lose your confidence, in what sense?

 

Fair enough. I myself remember back in school when my PMO addiction was at its worst, I could simply not talk to girls naturally at all (or even just people in general) and I often found myself losing interest altogether because I thought that all my hopes were lost and that Porn was my only escape. Of course I was wrong, and I severely regret my actions now.
I'd say now that you've been on NoFap for some time and are aware of your actions, I'd say go for it! It's much better to be in a relationship that keeps you away from your vices. just make sure you're in it for the right reasons. But in the end, it's up to you.

 

I see, so this is how it affects you. The only way this affects me is I am constantly horny so I am PMO multiple times a day which is bad and time consuming (less time to talk to family/friends) and porn isn’t the best thing to watch is it?

Therefore I want to stop for these reasons, I can talk to girls fine in real life that’s not an issue for me. I didn’t realise PMO could affect people’s interactions with other people.

But like FezMan76 said, go for it! Try not to let PMO affect your life too much, as if it’s controlling you then PMO has won, and we want to be on the winning side. Try to be more sociable with girls, as then at least you’ve tried you know? Don’t let the effects of PMO shackle you from doing stuff in real life! And trust me when you’re with a nice girl, PMO will be less hard

 

Go for it mate!