Small Pen*s Club - (males, females and non-binary welcome)

Thank you @she-dernatinus . . . I love this post so much.
I feel validated, heard, seen, understood, accepted

To be clear, my size is 4 1/4 inches (10.8cm) which I do see as small, not average. But, I love it. In many ways it's the perfect size to reflect who I am and who I want to be.
My mother's father was very much an alpha male and a womanizer which was not such a good thing for my mother and her mother (not at all). I was raised with minimal male influence and not to be alpha. In some ways, those same genes (or at least a fourth of them) run in my body and I often appear to others as somewhat alpha, in part because of my height at 6 feet (1.83 meters) and that puts a lot of expectations on me that can be hard to live up to. I'm just me. Someone with masculine and feminine traits. The world seems to want me to express only the masculine traits (hence my attraction to femdom and sissy), but I need to learn to be true to myself . . . "To thine own self be true".

I love having a small penis. I love that it is big enough do all the things (some positions excluded) and not so small as to be a micropenis. It suits me just fine, I think.

The men's room and locker rooms can be a little awkward. I much prefer gender neutral facilities. So yes, occasionally I do feel insecure about it. I think the best way to relieve those insecurities is to talk about it and hopefully find other guys with smaller penises that feel the same (and supportive women as well).

Also, most things are not all good or all bad. Having a small penis has it's benefits as well!!

 

That is what I picture as well. That and the pipe dream many have of finding a man with those physical traits but who is sensitive and compassionate as well. Then, I recall that there such men, I've met a few. As well as loads and loads of assholes trying to pretend that they are alpha.

One image that I love to recall was a photo (a few actually) of an attractive guy with a beautifully sculpted and built body and . . . a 4 inch penis (erect in the photos). That is what I aspire to. Not the specifics per se but the idea of not letting a little penis discourage me from reaching my full potential and, at the same time, not hiding my genitals - perhaps even taking pride in what I have because I am a whole, complete and beautiful person.

 

Thank you for the sentiment and sharing your view on the matter.
I would like to respectfully disagree. There have been many studies on penis size and meta-analysis suggests that the average in about 5.5 inches. One study that gets quoted a lot (perhaps because it makes a lot of people happy) states that most are between 5 and 6 inches long with the average being 5.1 (that's a very skewed range considering the average ) and then there is the famous Kinsey study which found the average to be 6.3 inches (this one has been largely debunked as it was based on self-reporting )
Some studies by country or region found that there are places where the average is above 6 inches and even close to 7 and other places where the average is closer to 5 inches. Most of Europe and North America is about 5.5 inches. I would be average in North Korea and close to average in a few other countries in that region, but it should be noted that people from those areas are shorter in stature as well.

I apologise if it appears that I am letting ego get in the way, but as the founder of the Small Penis Club I feel duty-bound to defend what I have on offer as small.

 

I know this question wasn't directed towards me, but I had been tempted to comment on your previous statement.
I, too, have posted dick pics and nudes of myself on the internet (but not on Reddit). Most didn't garner a lot of comments either positive or negative, though I did get a few of each and there was one woman who took one of my photos and made a meme out of it (to the tune of "not measuring up")

I suppose that I might never become president after such actions, but my one hope is that (as long as I don't become famous) my photos will disappear into the veritable sea of such things that get posted on the internet by other idiots every single day!

 

No worries and thank you for replying. Mine is 4,25 inches when fully erect. I agree with you that 5 inches, or even 4,75 is at least close to average. Girth also matters and on that front I am pretty close to average. In a room of 100 random men, I would probably be in the middle for girth, but only 4 or 5 guys would be shorter. In total, I consider that small, but not tiny.

 

I did get views and comments from men and women. Most of the male comments expressed a homosexual interest in what they said . . . not unflattering, but they didn't move me much.
One woman, who I had met in person previously, wrote something to the effect of "All right! Looking good! Keep 'em coming!" in response to a couple of full nude pics. That felt really good.