Why do you like porn?

Initially it was my happy place in my gloomy life.
Now it's a parasite that I can't rid myself of.

 

I don’t, I haven’t looked at it in early a month, maybe more.

 

I guess because I'm a fucking depraved bastard and certain types of porn appeal to that...

 

I did because I bought into its illusion.
It lures you in with its appeal at first then demands more from you. Just like drugs.

It also deceives you in a state of innocence, deceptive about what it truly offers.

I only "liked" it because it snared me at a young age and became a habit/addiction.

When you see it for its true self theres nothing to like about it. Its totally disgusting

 

I dont like porn

 

Cause I can't get in real life...

can't get laid in real life due to loneliness

loneliness due to a lack of father figure

I hate porn, the man who made it should be executed

 

True

 

pretty much everything in this song:

 

I like porn in the same way a basehead likes crack coaine. I don't like it but I feel compelled to use it. To escape with it.

 

We all relate to this. There is nothing natural about porn.

 

When I relapsed recently, I had the thought "this is a good stress relief, and it's fun, maybe I could just do it once a month."

Of course, once I'd dusted myself off the reality began to sink in. It's not something I've ever been able to regulate. And other areas of my life ultimately go to shit.

I won't beat around the bush. I like seeing women's butts etc. etc. But (pardon the pun) I never feel better for it. And just one binge session or a few days use in a row and I'm a damn zombie.

Being single and not a ladies man, I guess there's a 'NoFap desert' to cross before things get sexual in real life.

I know not everything is about sex, and believe me I've come a long way there, but it's hard to just put one of our biological instincts to the side...

TLDR; porn has girls but I probably need to just get out and chase girls more lol!

 

Because of boredom and the honnest true answer is because it really stimulates you but after that you feel like a looser... complete energy drain when you can focus on something better

 

Because it is extremely appealing and seductive

 

Because it releases dopamine. We all love its euphoric feeling. We love the dopamine high.

 

I like it because it allows me to escape. Get my needs met on a superficial level and it gets me high.

 

When I was younger PMO allowed me to eliminate sexual frustration and go on with my life without distraction.

Now it has become a way to self-medicate for depression/anxiety and to escape reality briefly.

 

I dont think i like porn, i like the feeling it gives.., it makes me feel less lonely and depressed, it makes me feel like theres actually another human being that cares about me and makes me feel good, its where i look for that human connection that i crave so much but dont seek elsewhere because of my social anxiety.
Of course this is all fake and this feeling only lasts for a while, after it i feel worse then ever, and like a huge failure.

 

I wrote out the list of eight reasons in a journal post here. I think the kind of answers that say "I hate it" are all wrong. It is much better to face up to what we love about porn than to hide behind false bravado and hope the longing goes away. Forewarned is forearmed.

 

I don't like it anymore.