Woman on tik tok asks “where did all the good men go”?

i stopped at 6 seconds. Wtf? Like she knows all men and their weakness all all planet earth. Did she talk to all of us men? did she showed her good side? -,- No one is good in one another his eyes if they judge so. and that happens way to fast.

We are all so full of judgement and hate. Lets stop this god forsaken nonsense, please all

 

they're all with me lol

 

Yeah I'll rescue her from her bipolar disorder giving her lithium

 

“where did all the good men go”?
The good man that want to date only her and even marry her and have kids with her are invisible to her. She don't give them the time a day. She is after the top guys, the guys that all woman want to be with. She is not a top woman so no top guy will ever marry her, he is going to play with her, have some fun and dump her for another woman. Top man have plenty of woman like her to have fun and dump.

The problems cames from the fact that man date normally down and woman date up. A top guy that is a 9 what to marry a woman that is a 9..10, maybe a really solid 8 but he will date and have fun with a lot of woman in the 5/7 range. That's because the womans in that range are going to be really happy to date a guy that is a 9. Also this woman are going to do everything to marry this guy so they are going to be extra nice with him and crazy in bed to make him stay with them. They think they can land a man that is a 9 but the reality the guy is just having some fun with them and many other girls like her.
The woman that is a 6..7 think that if she is sleeping with guys that are 9 then she must be a 9 so she just need to keep insisting to date this 9 guys and eventually one of them is going to marry her. The hard reality is that none of them is going to do it. Eventually she is going to turn 30/35 and this 9 guys are going to be dating woman in their 20's and stop having fun with her and she is going to wonder.... "Where did all the good men go?". Of course when she talk about all the good man she talk about all the man that are a 9 that used to have sex with her and now they are not giving her the time a day. The guys that are a 6..7 like her and are willing to date her and maybe marry her in the future are not enough for her, she wants a 9 because she thinks she is a 9... so this guys that are a 6..7 are invisible to her.

Another rissing problem for this is that this woman (fearing been alone and childless) is going to "settle" for a guy that is a 6..7, get married, have kids and eventually when she finds a guy that is a 8..9 that is willing to have fun with her she is not going to keep faithfull with him husbund because she really didn't love him from the get go. It's sad this happens but it just reality.

 

Those kind of men aren't going to marry such woman. I stopped watching this video after a minute, toxic, judgemental and negative personality. Go ahead and complain day and night at the end you are not going to be with a high standards man, with such personality.

 

Life is not a porn. There is no epidemic of people getting videos of their new wives getting railed. Also, people are free to have sex with whomever they want before they commit - who cares if it was a 3some with two black guys? The problem isn't the act, but the act of hiding it, the lie of omission.

The guy at the end and many comments in this thread are no better than the rando woman on tiktok. The response to "where have all the good men gone" should be "we're right here, being good, not our fault you don't see us". It should not be "well, you fucked too many guys I don't think are as good as me, so I've decided I'm not longer going to be a decent person and instead I'm going to be worse than the person I was originally looking down at AND i'm going to talk down to you as well."

 

So many social experts up in here. Wow you guys are smart, and so well adjusted.[/S]

In all seriousness there's some truth in this thread, but y'all are taking it to a common but weird extreme and it's depressing. The original video is a woman saying men are the problem, the responses are primarily that women are the problem, but I have a proposal. Maybe you are the problem.

Are you such a prince yourself? What do you think a "good" woman looks for in a mate, anyway? It's money and earning potential. If you are obnoxious and don't/can't react appropriately to social cues, your earning potential is compromised. If you are in your mom's basement, it looks like lack of ambition and/or inability to care for yourself, much less a mate. If you're fat or a slob or poorly dressed, it looks like you can't or won't care for yourself, or maybe you don't think yourself worth it so why should she? If you want to attract a woman, get out of your dead end retail job. Learn a trade. Start a business. Get a degree and join a firm, build a career. Shave your face, or groom your beard. Buy a few dress shirts and learn how to iron them, and a pair of decent shoes. Practice real, face to face interactions where you listen to what other people are saying so you can respond appropriately, thoughtfully, honoring their contribution then advance the conversation.

Also consider, where are you looking for "good" women? You can't find women on screen, be that phone or TV, in Porn, streaming show, video game, or commercial. They have boobs and makeup like women but they aren't real. Someone, most times men, paid them to dress and speak and act like that. You can't find real women on Tinder or other dating apps, bars, or dance clubs, because people there are looking for disposable relationships. You can't find real women, hell you can't find real people on the Internet, because when people get on the Internet they cease to be real. I am not real. You think I would be ranting and lecturing you like this in real life? No! I have the social awareness to know that jumping into a conversation unintroduced and lecturing everyone like a condescending asshole would be a bad idea. You think some bleach blond broad on Tik Tok is representative of women? Hell no! She represents people who think a video streaming service for people with short attention spans is a good place to air their poorly developed opinions, and people like Darius love this stuff because it gives them easy content where they can be self righteous and look smart. If you spend all your free time at home on the Internet, or with your face crammed into your phone, you won't ever meet real women and will have no clue what these beautiful, mystical creatures that occasionally bleed from their holes are really like.

Most of all, stop dealing in generalizations. It's not a problem with "women these days" any more than there's a problem with men in general. Whether it's feminists blaming the nascent "Patriarchy" for every tiny thing they don't like, or bitter MGTOW grumpeteers accusing all women of being shallow, vapid gold digging slutwhores, it's all the same. You're looking to blame someone else for your problems, because that leaves you completely justified in remaining the selfish asshole you always were. Real men don't point fingers and blame other people. Real men look inward, they work on themselves, they have the humility to know they can be at fault while having the confidence and ambition to fix the problem. Then, with at least a short history of success behind them, they decide what they want and make a plan to get it.

 

If you read any of that assuming I was breathlessly earnest the entire time... I guess I have the Internet to blame. Back in my day we had this thing called "sarcasm," but you could only tell by the tone or by the extreme stupidity of the comment. The assumption was, nobody could be that stupid. On the Internet we have no tone, but a lot of stupid people as demonstrated by this thread. The line you quote was meant to accuse you and the other whining, butthurt incels of over valuing while severely misunderstanding women, but since most Internet dwellers rarely if ever use empathy, but simply project their own insecurities and flaws onto everyone else around them, I understand how you became confused.

Tell you what; I'll give you a Tl;dr version of that original post so you can understand.

Fix yourself before you complain about other people

People on the Internet, including me, are not real