Prostitution can be good and sacred

It's interesting that you're against casual sex but are okay with prostitution. One would argue the transactional aspect of prostitution is actually worse than casual sex since it increases the level of objectification of the human person thus diminishing their dignity. Not to mention it only goes to further create an environment in where the prostitutes and the John's are kept from ever treating the root underlying issues which have lead them to their current state/condition.

I also think you might be confusing the word sacred for the word profane.

 

@modern milarepa is making numerous errors in this thread. He's using partial truths and blending them together in some kind of quasi-mystical message + some kind of self-help message. Yes, at the end of the day from a metaphysical perspective, EVERYTHING is sacred. Even a piece of dog shit is sacred by the fact that it exists and is part of the continuum of Reality. But that doesn't make it wholesome or good. It's still a piece of shit.

Sex is sacred, I agree with him there. Sexual energy can be transmuted into spiritual energy, I agree with him there. Seeing escorts can be a solution to one's sexual imbalance - ummmmm. This is where his message gets very muddy and confused. I can't judge the man, maybe it worked for him. But this is not a solution for 99 % of people. And I'm being generous with that 99%.

In his first post he says, "Also for example escorts can help a married man in a relationship were the wife doesn't want to have sex anymore." This says it all for me. Yes, it's a problem if your wife doesn't want to have sex with you, but his proposed answer will create a bigger problem than the original problem.

@modern milarepa, you are intelligent and seem to have a cool personality, but you're also confused in some regards.

 

For better or for worse, been married for 10 years - that's why your comment left me scratching my head a little, it seems naïve for someone as experienced as you. Life is tough indeed my man.

My issues with your argument are not moralistic or religious. It's spiritual and psychological.

But look, you're right, it's natural that we have different views and experiences so we can agree to disagree on this one.

 

Out of curiosity, which monastic order were you a part of and for how long?

 

It's been my experience that the person who is incapable of feeling as well as the person who's is driven by their feelings, are both unhealthy individuals. I've also noticed a trend that your value of casual sex vs prostitution is usually factored by what YOU get out of it and not so much what the prostitute gets out of it. If sex is sacred as you claim it to be then it would be set aside. Rules/commandments would be put in place to protect its sacred dignity. Prostitution is selling a sacred act for the increase of that which is profane; money. Like selling your soul to be a rockstar. It's taking something of a higher dignity and debasing it.

I've had experience with prostitutes which is why I find your advice confusing. Your approach really just emphasizes using prostitutes as a tool and so you say that because tools are good and useful then prostitution is good and useful. While I get that, it doesn't change the fact that your view is beyond dehumanizing.

I don't find your oppinions offensive simply because I don't think you have malicious intent. I do find your opinions misguided but I'm sure you might say the same about me, which is fine.

 

Your approach isn't new my friend. Their is a reason prostitution is called the oldest profession.

 

If the food addict forsakes all food then they die. If the horny person forsakes all sex they don't die.

The two are not similar at all.

 

mr milarepa, how tf do you not ejaculate during sex, do you edge a few times then stop or does it just take long to reach ejac?

 

He is a sith mate, he does not only edge, he has an orgasm without ejac, then another one, then another one, and when his sexual energy levels are going to pluto, he stops, and redirect all that energy to improve his vital energy all around the body.

 

Lool i never even questioned the multiorgasms like what, take me to the dark side

 

Read the book he recommended, the Tao of life sex and longevity - Daniel Reid, great book that can help as an introduction.