Day 90! First time

But what does all of this mean? Will you never masturbate again or will you never masturbate to porn again?
I would never like to masturbate again but that seems so far fetched and unrealistic. It would be fine if I got a girlfriend but that will not happen.
This is what holds me back, I won’t ever have sex (most probably anyway, for different reasons that are not important right now) so in essence masturbation is all I got. So if I stop masturbating I will deprive myself of the pleasure of orgasm for all time.
This is what troubles me.

Anyway congrats on your 90 days, it seems like an eternity, well done!

 

To Mr Rn, good job sir, but I would say to not do the mistake to think most of it is behind now, I've seen quiete a good amount of report here and there saying they got trapped into this "90 days milestone, pog everything is behind me now, i've rebooted" and relapsed at one point or another in the futur.

One of them, pretty well written and "documented" (there is a lot of info, that's what i mean). He didn't relapse but he apparently had very hard time way beyond 90 days at which point he felt he was kinda done with the pmo problem if i remember correctly : https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/1-year-of-hard-mode-abstinence-today-365-days-report-yeeeeaaaahh.65779/

To mummra, hey man I got ur feeling at some point and I thought that few years ahead, if I would really have such a dead love life, I could just pleasure myself "the smart way", without porn, without any external stimulation, and not even necessarily the act of masturbation, there is a lot of pleasurables ways to stimulate the penis (and not necessarily to orgasm either). It's like food imo, disregarding the addiction problem, when u got a healthy relationship with ur penis/vagina u can pleasure urself without excess (frequence, intensity, etc). I would also emphasise the fact that this thought is one of these that u're brain is using to rationalise going back to PMO.

 

Good job on reaching such an impresive streak brother. Dont let your guard down doh. I once reached a 70 something streak and let my guard down wich led to me failing over and over again. I am getting back up doh.

Keep on going strong bro

 

Congratulations sir.I hope I reach there too.I have never gotten beyond 32.I wish i get rid of this shit.

 

Dont give up and learn from your mistakes and you should be able to get there bro. It will take time but you will make it

 

Congratulations brother!
Are you still boxing?
When I heard that you were a boxer I was happy cause I used to boxe too I'm working out to lose some fat and then I'll boxe again.
Talking about it increase my motivation.

 

Congratulations on reaching 90 days, your story makes for a nice reading!

 

Congrats! I'm just starting with NoFap and really "no desire to watch porn" sounds totally unrealistic for me now

 

I really like that idea of setting a certain amount of days as a goal. If I can make it that long I will feel really good from not doing it for so long and I will feel like I achieved something huge for myself. I like the group challenges like the Jedi Council. I am on day 9 right now of no PMO so I will promise to get to at least the Jedi Knight rank which is 30 days of no PMO. I have gone 90 days of no porn before so I know how much better I can feel without consuming that stuff for a long time. But this time I'm abstaining from the MO as well so I expect I will feel at least a little bit better than last time. I relapsed at the time because I had a lot of stress and I didn't know how to handle it, so I'm taking things in life at a more gradual process rather than trying to do everything at once.

 

congratulation brother . We are proud of u . dont ever turn back to pmo again . I lost a streak of 164 days because of my overcondifence that i cant relapse . make sure to be still respectful towards your journey .

 

Yes I will. Thank you for sharing your experience. It helps.

 

no man

no man , masturbation is not all you have,you have wet dreams,YOUR BODY decides when you need to have an orgasm,and when you do it simply gives you a wet dream,do you think thousands of years ago when our ancestors couldn't get sex they masturbated? heck no,we as males EVOVLED to not ever have to masturbate,its not healthy nor is it beneficial,plus semen retention is an actual thing and you'll learn a lot about why you shouldn't masturbate (even without porn) and if you think that you NEED to orgasm then you have a problem dude,a mental one,cuz we as humans do not need to, conserving our seed,the most powerful liquid, something the gods would call nector,is the most important thing,you do not wanna be wasting it,no matter what your brain says

 

Well how far do you want to go? Masturbation in ancient Greece, Egypt and Rome was practiced, this is concluded from texts and art. They were every bit as perverse as people now.
Pre civilization? That is anyone’s guess. I’d say probably but not as obsessive as we do now. Just imagine how it went. People lived in small confined spaces, probably a whole bunch of them together. They would see a “couple” if that was a thing back then have sex. The others could hear and see this as a house had or a cave had no doors or different rooms. It is not unlikely imo that other humans got erections and masturbated while watching or listening.

Kids masturbate too and they don’t watch porn. When I was under 10 I had orgasms without ejaculation. I didn’t realize it then what I was doing I just knew it felt good and I did it regularly. Parents have seen this behavior by their children as well. Humans just naturally learned how to masturbate until the church called it a sin and started shaming people who did it.

 

One question bro.. how many times you got wet dreams during this 90 days journey?
Does wet dreams stops after some time?