Ohh oh incel when will you change?

So long as a boogieman impedes his desires, never. Why reflect inward upon failures when pointing and yelling is so fun?

That bitterness is like a poison an I've seen it more than once online. There was one guy who expressed it to me offline, when everyone was telling stories of their love lives and I mentioned my one true love, lost to me by the power of social class and immaturity on both parties.

How to change them though? Ha! Try forcing a horse to drink. I wish them well.

 

Oh, those guys with topics like ,,Give up on finding a woman, it's not worth it.'' etc. Yeah, it's pretty f****d up. I'm kind of a loser, but I don't hate or blame women for that. It's my fault that I'm in this situation. Blaming others for your mistakes will not take you anywhere and I learned that the hard way.

 

Our society worships sex. I even find it worse in America than in Europe. The "alpha male" "beta male" ideology directly ties a man's worth to how easily he can get partners. Sex is viewed as a currency and sacred in and of itself. The deprivation or deliverance of sex literally gives meaning to people's lives, and I'm not even talking about the sex of bonding with your partner in general but rather just sex.

The consequences of this are the widespread consumption of pornography, incels, so-called "alpha males" which often doesn't even refer to men in places of power anymore, OnlyFans, SIMPing (I don't mean that as derogatory against women like it's used, I hope my meaning is understood here)-- or just the general idolatry of women in general, but most truly problematically as goddesses and even sex goddesses.

The problem is so pervasive it has infected everything from someone's internal self-worth to entire theories in academia about the outside world. And I don't think incels are going away any time soon, because so long as lust directs the motions of society, men who don't get laid with always be othered.

 

America has devolved into paganism. Where streamers, porn stars, actors and actresses become false idols of this pagan mythos.

The sexual revolution and its consequences has been a disaster for the human race.

 

Like Pokemane and Neekolul? Aren’t simps and incels practically the same thing essentially, but in different stages?

 

I’d argue they’re in the same category.

Incels can find a partner despite wanting one and will worship harlots and witches just like a simp

Simps can be an incel, but could also be someone who has the ability to get partners yet falls into a trap.

 

Honestly incel has lost all meaning for me. Just another buzzword that people throw around when they want to pigeonhole someone.

 

wtf is an incel anyway? Is it the opposite of microsoft excel? /s

 

It must be awkward being named Chad now.

 

You can blame your parents if you want. If they enrolled you in sports at a young age. Force you to go out more. Banned your internet or smthng. Make you try hobbies.

 

Yeah, I'm gonna blame my single mother who sacrificed enough for me already. I'm not such an idiot to blame others for my mistakes because that will not get me anywhere. I need to accept them, move forward and try to be the best version of myself.

Now I have depression and anxiety, I'm overweight and pretty introverted. I should blame my mother for this? No, it was my choice to stay back and let my life and opportunities fly over me. Maybe I should blame everyone and then my life will magically turn into good.

But I think you'll be a great parent if you think like this.

 

I know I will be. It was your mom's choice to raise you single or whatever. If you believe in personal responsibility then maybe your mother shouldn't have had a child when she knew she wouldn't be able to take good care of it. Even if she did she should have ensured the best for her children, since it was her choice to bring you in this world. But she didn't care enough about you. How long does it take to enroll your child in football?

You are overweight? Great, that guy from your class isnt, hes also very dominant and has had multiple girlfriends, has a great circle of bros he can count on. Why? Because he took affirmative action earlier? Was he reading self help books as an infant? No. His dad forced him to join a sport. His mom cut off his Wi-Fi or snatched away the mobile phone. So he was forced to go outside and play. That was his only choice. And now he is a successful business owner, or an army officer, or a manager at some company. It's ok to blame your parents, accept that it was their fault, but now since they can't do anything about it you have to do it yourself. Be your own dad, maybe your own mom too

 

Preach it, brother

 

My parents didn't enroll me in much hobbies. The ones I can only count off of my head is summer basketball camp, taekwondo, and piano lessons. The first two didn't stick, I didnt have much interest playing basketball anyway and i didnt finish my taekwondo course. The piano lessons kinda sticked, I didnt enroll in another course though I tried for 3 years to self-learn and improve my skills. Still havent gotten anywhere. Honestly I dont know if me having more activities to do instead of being on the computer would have changed anything. maybe it will

bruh

 

nah, i dont think blaming your parents is an answer. if i got enrolled in a sport, i probably would still be the same weight, because i wasnt interested while the other kid was which is why he's fit and healthy. where you are now is because of you. which is why I can relate to garou's statement that he had opportunities, but didnt seize them. I can relate. I could have been good at taekwondo, piano, or basketball, but I didnt even though I was enrolled by my parents to do so. It was because I lacked interest

 

What did you do then? You weren't out taekwondoing, pianoing, basketballing. What were you doing all these years then?