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Fuck, Fuck, Fuck ! Got discovered !

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by BBX555, Aug 13, 2015.

  1. BBX555

    BBX555 Fapstronaut

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    Matter of fact, yes! :cool: Actually, finished all the bananas that were on the dinning room table :D:D:D:D
     
  2. bandanana

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    Have you considered apologizing for that and afterwards telling them, "BUT I'm doing NoFap now, so it's okay"?
     
  3. BBX555

    BBX555 Fapstronaut

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    It would a good thing to do. But right now, I have no courage to initiate. Will respond if approached.
     
  4. dan_w

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    I'm sorry to hear what happened, I would struggle, as would anyone in your situation.

    Try to see the funny side I suppose, its not like you got caught 'charming the snake', which happened to me once.

    Learn from your mistakes, and be careful ;)
     
  5. atak

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    That is some American Pie shit. I would destroy that faplet since everytime they will see you holding it they will imagine you holding it with one hand while jerking off with the other.
     
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  6. Jodokus

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    Even worse than to be caught is the constant fear of it. I think that's another thing we all want to leave behind us.
    I'm always so cautious. Not only with my own computer but with others too. As if on everyone's computer would be a browser history full of porn. Is there a word for it? Porn-angst?
     
  7. Addiction.
     
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  8. Imtrying

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    Back in the 90's, I rented porn from a video store. I also borrowed movies from the library. Naturally the day came when I got them mixed up & put "Lick it Quick" in the return box at the library. I noticed it almost immediately but had to then ask the librarian for the tape I accidently gave her. She kind of laughed & gave it to me but I was humiliated. Funny story now though.

    How strong is an addiction when you have stories like that but keep using?
     
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  9. BBX555

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    I don't know why you are on this forum, hopefully it's not to convince us little ones that pornography is the most wonderful human discovery ever !!! For many of us (especially me) we are here because we have realized that pornography is a problem, a real addiction problem that is interfering with our lives. And we want to stop this addiction. I turn to addiction to deal with life and painful situations and have not learned to handle life in a mature way. For me, there is no such a thing as a stigma when it comes to porn. It is simply wrong and unhealthy whether done in private or when found out. Yes, I was embarrassed to be found out, but I was already feeling that this was a problem even before that. I shall not debate the morality of porn since that is a personal thing. But the science is clear. You just have to look at yourbrainonporn website to find out or listen to to an ex porn performer to demystify the lies. Anyway, porn is wrong for me, whether I'm found out or not, and I am here to learn to stop this addiction for life, not just for some brief moment. :cool:
     
  10. Dimi143

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    When I was about 5, my family and I was at a friends house, and we pushed play on the vcr to watch a kids movie and a porn came on. I can still see the scene in my mind, very traumatic, specially because I didn't understand and no one took the time to explain. I'm sure they thought "they're just kids, they'll forget about it". Kids have a very impressionable mind. If this was me I would talk to my wife (very hard to do) and explain that you're getting help, and ask her to help you find a way to explain to the kids, after you take some time to let your mind comes down. If I am responsible for the future of my kids, then I am responsible for making amends and showing by example what it's like to be responsible for your actions. I've had to do that and the reward is much greater then hiding and hoping everyone would forget. You'll be OK, if you're at your bottom, there's no where to go but up.
     
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