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Having FOMO

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by selfimprovemarcel, Oct 24, 2021.

  1. selfimprovemarcel

    selfimprovemarcel Fapstronaut

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    Do you guys experience the destructing feeling that you’re going to give up something you’ll never get back when giving up PMO?
    I just looked at a picture from a girl and felt deep misery realising I will never masturbate and fantasize to such beautifull people ever again. (I will never engage with those girls either because they are not my age group anymore)
    How do you guys deal with this?
     
  2. selfimprovemarcel

    selfimprovemarcel Fapstronaut

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    Yes
     
  3. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    What is FOMO?
     
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  4. Fear Of Missing Out
     
  5. selfimprovemarcel

    selfimprovemarcel Fapstronaut

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    yeah thats very true. My biggest issue tho, is the fact that the woman i like the most (maybe this is a porn induced fetish of mine), are underage, like 15+. Even though im still 19, I wont be engaging with those young girls.
    So my question is how do older people, like 50+, deal with the fact that the woman they like the most (men mostly keep liking girls in her 20s the most) wont be available to them even in their fantasizing mind.
     
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  6. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    Oh thanks lol, I missed out on that meaning! :p
     
  7. When I gave up PMO at the start of my current streak I initially did miss one of the cams girls I had spent time with. I know she does not care about me as she claimed, she only cares about the money I spent on her. It's been over 50 days since I have seen her and I have no doubt she does not miss me at all. Do I think about her sometimes? Yes I do, but I know I'm better off without her and I like having the money I spent on her in my bank account.


    I'm 100% okay with this because one thing that happens when I am on a good NoFap streak is i become more engaging and more social. So my odds of finding something real go up, and I'd much rather have a real girlfriend/relationship then some fake one and me sitting at my computer and whacking off.
     
  8. selfimprovemarcel

    selfimprovemarcel Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for your advice, this is some perfect logical reasoning and giving me some hope for better days coming!
     
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