Has anyone lived their fetishes out, only to be left disappointed?

You can create ten other threads about acting out or not.
Why don't you give it a try?
Go for it.
In the end you will discover that the guys who adviced you were right.

 

Guyus Notpussus is a solomon!

 

Well, PMO is its own kind of fetish behavior, so ultimately the disappointment with any fetish will be a sense of failure or falling into the shitty experience and cesspool aftermath of the fetish all over again, as one enslaved, while watching all their relationships, goals, and inner spirit crumble before him. Just read any of the horror stories here on Nofap site. Like PMO, fetishes are also a way to mask and numb the pain of real life issues, too. Ultimately a fetish is another layer over and above the P or PMO addiction as well. I am strongly convicted of the fact that one can never achieve recovery from PMO so long as they venture out and explore sexual fetishes and get deeper and deeper into them. So, if it's sexual health that you are seeking as a lifestyle, why trek deeper in newer pools of quicksand, all of which will painfully need to be undone for one who wants true recovery from all addictions so as to live a happy and genuine life. Of course, many still need to find out the hard way, and some never get out of their fetishes. Best wishes!
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That’s fucked up man, I feel sorry for you. There’s still time to rid yourself from this stuff. You’ll hate it.

 

I don't know what you expected asking a forum full of people whose lives are damaged by their sexual addiction whether or not it would worth diving in to your fetish. I would imagine you'd expect people to tell you to stop before you life gets damaged.

If you're wondering whether or not the stuff you're in to is an addiction or a fetish is kind of a moot point. Nylons are what people wear to stay warm, not get off. I get that it got you to blow your load in high school or whatever, but if you dive in to it you'll just be diverging further and further away from reality. If that is going to lead to these huge peaks in pleasure in dopamine, anything you're doing now will cease to bring you pleasure, and you'll have to invest more and more time and effort just to feel normal. It sounds like you already know this. You're clearly laying out what cliff this path would send you towards, and you're wondering why you can't go down there just a little bit, just get all of the highs and none of the lows. If that is the idea, look around here for other people who made that choice and consider whether you would want to take on the life consequences that they are facing.

At the end there you said you wish you could forget about it, and that would be great. Since it does pop in your head, perhaps it would be good to build out all of that mental image, including all of the negative consequences, and how bad it could be, including the fact that it won't make you happy in the long run, so you don't let the thought of the fetishes occupy an overly positive place in your mind?

 

It sounds like really unhealthy amount.

 

Even if the fetish is authentic the way we engage with it might be unhealthy for us. Sometimes it might be better to leave it. It is probably impossible to lose ability to enjoy such a fetish, but it is possible to lose interest.

 

Every high will lead to a bigger low. Every peak will lead to a rockier and darker crevasse. Can you find something that could bring you long term purpose and not short term spikes of pleasure? Could you do some reflection and unearth what it is you're using this pleasure seeking to escape from? You're reflective enough to see where it would lead, I'm certain you can figure out how to escape from a much more disappointing future.

It's not just you by the way. It's how we're all wired watch this for a long form explanation:

 

Ask yourself. If you did this, could you really look into your parents eyes again without any shame? Every time you speak to them, you will be hiding something. They'll think you're off doing things that you enjoy and living a happy life, but really you're just acting out some disgusting sissy shit while you deathgrip your dick in an animalistic state.

Do you really want to do this? Like honestly, ask yourself, is this what you TRUELY want. Quitting porn isn't going to answer this question. You're not going to magically find out this answer "after a 90 day reboot". Everyone who has a problem, KNOWS they have a problem even when they are in the worst of it. So you know the true answer right now. Take the porn out of. Ask yourself rationally.

Ask yourself - if you had a choice to either remove all of this stuff from your mind and never think about it again, or become a sissy and act out all the extreme actions that you saw in porn, which one would you choose. Which one is more "YOU". What defines you. Is being a sissy who you truely want to be? Ask yourself these questions.

Because once you're in, you're in. Theres no going back. Be ready for a life of low self esteem, and glorifying the idea that you are a worthless piece of trash. Not to mention, a very ugly looking "girl".

 

Yea it’s degrading as fuck, a type of self harm to live out your inner critic.

 

Yea I got into that sissy transwoman hypno crap, and there’s been times since where I’ve backed down from conflict or arguments as I was so deep in shame, i find if I feel so low and are prepared to abuse myself in this destructive way where is the me that wants to stick up for himself. There’s times when I’ve proper pussied it and have regretted for a while after. The longer Ive stayed away the stronger I’ve felt for sure

 

Majority of doms are crap, but when you get a good/skilled one and have your intense sessions that stimulate the fantasy, you’ll then crave more, you’ll adapt and push the boundaries to get the same rush!
I knew this messed up coke head gambling dom that would fund her habits by escorting and dominating guys that would travel from all over the country, shoving bars( sounds up their japs eye, cutting them, whipping their balls with stinging nettles..
I was there once and one of her regulars called and wanted her to arrange 5 blokes to gang fk him and … in his face. He probably started off just liking suspenders on chicks or a bit of pvc! Don’t be that guy!

 

Sounds like you’re attention seeking a bit or your addiction/compulsion is talking. Wouldn’t you be on fetish site rather than asking for help on a site where people are trying to stop Problematic sexual behaviours! A decent therapist would know where your submissive fetish is coming from and explore it with you. They wouldn’t have a problem with you being a sissy if this didn’t make you feel bad but the fact you’re on this site tells me you’re trying to deal with it? No offence btw

 

What. Sissies are disgusting and depressed people who hate themselves. So hot, isn't it.