35 and Older Accountability Group

Since it's day 30, I thought I'd share my experience so far....

1. I have way more energy and seem to always be doing something
2. I'm super driven to improve myself and I'm seeking out information, videos, and books that help me be a better version of me.
3. I'm setting goals now by actually putting them on paper and developing a plan.
4. I'm way more outgoing and upbeat. I easily initiate conversation with people, even the pretty girls that use to intimidate me.
5. I feel more confident and hold eye contact a lot better than before NoFap.
6. I definitely don't feel a need to try to impress women as I once did because my focus is in other areas.

These are a few. If I think of more, I'll add them. I'm definitely looking forward to how it'll be at 90 days!!!

 

Checking in, relapsed again so starting again....no choice but to keep going and trying to keep away from P

 

Had a slip today

 

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day 3 thursday check in

 

Checking in on day 35 with an update.

Several sources about NoFap/semen retention spoke about transmutation of sexual energy to other areas and now I understand what they meant.

I've become so goal-oriented and driven. I'm on my way to accomplishing several short-term goals currently. But the most productive thing I've done is I finally figured out the proper technologies to take my business literally global, with a definitive plan. I'm so excited because this is going change my life!!!

 

Ah Fridays. Statistically speaking probably my most prime relapse day. A workweek of stress culminating into a relapse. Not today!

 

Checking in

 

Checking in. Feeling strong.

 

My reality avoiding is out of control.

Working a new plan. I need to check in every day for a while.

Changing jobs soon. Nice raise but lots of stress in the transition. I am using the crutch that makes it 40 X's worse in the end.

 

Checking in for the first time. 37 year old here, eager to join this group. I've just started my no-PMO streak as you can see from my badge counter. May I be allowed to join this group?

 

"I have read the rules and would like to join this group"

Popping in. 33 y/o. I just went 13 days no pmo and 16 days no p. Haven't been this site in a few years, but decided to come back and get serious about rebooting for life and for intimacy. A breakup threw me off my game. Getting back on it.

 

Didn't meet all my new goals today but a good PMO free start anyway. Change is tough but I look forward to it. Can't just quit PM gotta become better as well to quit the PM.

 

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