What are your goals?

THAT's a really good question ! i have not kept tracks of my goals for a week so right now i'm messier than usual

1. leave school with a purpose in life (with or without the degree YES it is my last year and i am on a good path to screw up).
2. learn to drive a car for a drivers licence.
3. record a new album with songs, where i sing.
4. find a stable source of income so that i can live NOT in my parents' property.
5. 100 days on my NoFap counter.
6. have a daily routine of 30 minutes workout minimum (weights and/or running) -> i want to be the man that seduces my "inner woman" (there are some of us in my head).
7. be reliable to my school partners.
8. play a concert of my own music.

that's it for the moment.

 

My goals:

• Diet until 68 kg
• Body fat 14%
• 50k Euro at ETF until 2023
• 365 days SR/NoPMO
• Creating 3 Customizing campaign at Age of Empires 2
• Writing a novel

 

Find peace and happines for me and for others around me. Build a house for me and fammily. Have my own job. Never relapse again. Help people and animals.

Only way to do it is to strugle every day. Each day a time. Learning. And never take an easy path.
And also biggest goal. To reach heven and help who I can to reach it as well. And hopping there will be my two pets who are not on this world anymore

 

"AL" Goals:

I'm 56 yo. When I was in my early 20s, I wrote out all my goals under the following 10 categories. Today, I have achieved all of them, except for my ideal weight (one line item under "physical") and just now have conquered my life-long vice of PMO (one line item under spiritual). While I have other spiritual goals, too, for the remainder of my life (as this is open-ended growth), I just need to conquer my weight goal in the next year. Then, I can die! Ha!

I highly recommend the following goal categories for your life planning, where you may have as many goals as you'd like under each category as they apply to you. Other categories may suggest themselves. The items in parentheses are examples only - adjust or create your own specific line items as needed.

Physical (weight, body care regimen, exercise, hygiene)
Spiritual (spiritual/religious practice, spiritual growth, pursuit of virtues, meditation, prayer, quest for God)
Relational (relationships, family, friends, self, world, forgiveness toward enemies)
Educational (formal study, diplomas, higher degrees, certificates, job training)
Intellectual (informal study, pursuits of knowledge, intellectual interests, reading/writing, mind skills, higher math/science pursuits, thinktank endeavors, linguistics, foreign languages, philosophy, theology)
Occupational (job, career, trade)
Vocational (life vocation, life responsibilities, altruistic endeavors, social works, hobby, writing a novel of any genre)
Geographical (destinations to live, habitat preference, rural/urban, etc.)
Industrial (inventions, creativity, starting a home side business, jack-of-all trade skills for personal use)
Recreational (travel interests, sporting activities, hobbies, pets, horticulture, crafts, cooking, reading, music, astronomy, etc.)

.

 

My therapist actually asked me to try and figure this out, cause I am very aimless in life right now! I tried to narrow it down to single words. Currently have

Fulfillment.

Stability.

Creativity.

Health.

Independence.

 

I'm also a big Fan of AoEII since the beginning.
I have concrete ideas of the 3 scenarios:

1. Sigurd I from Norway
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sigurd_the_Crusader

2. Eduard 1 (longshanks) at the middle east

3. Alatar and Palando in the east lands of middle earth

Glad to see also more AoE II Fans here

 

Thank you! I'm hoping to delve into all this further with my next appointment, which is pretty soon.

 

Hi i am 25 jobless and recently i discovered i didn't have an aim, or goal in life and that's a big problem. So do.i need to find my goal nd how i find that.?

 

have you found a goal ?

 

Living happily with my parents
1000+ days semen retention
Lifelong nofap
Good CGPA
High profile job
High Salary
A brand new Audi car.
A beautiful wife
No bad addiction.
A holy life
peaceful death
Heaven

 

My current 3 month goals are

• Finish the foundations section on the odin project(a website for learning web development).
• Work my way up to doing a full workout 3 times a week, and then maintain that level of exercise. Placing an extra emphasis on incorporating compound lifts.
• Work up to 20 minutes of meditation a day and then maintain that. This one has been the hardest so far as I don't take advantage of the few times I manage to get silence and privacy.

I wrote down exactly how I'm gonna achieve these goals and what I need to have done on a weekly basis to remain on schedule to accomplish these things by the end of the year. I have other long reaching goals as well but I see those more as guiding stars than actual, concretely broken down goals like the ones written above. Those include cutting down to 1 soda a day, mastering good posture, keeping my goals to myself more(I'm okay with sharing it anonymously online as it helps me to write it out, this applies more so to people in my actual life),and a whole bunch of other ones that are a bit vague but give me a general direction.

 

Oh dear me I hope OP is staying off the bottle and out of brothels that will consume a man horribly I have to say.

A man? A woman too. An X even. Hate to sound sexist apologies due. Escorts aren't the ones to ask about line of work satisfaction I take it regret seeing some years and years back.

Also you admitted you are alcoholic not just like struggling with alcohol dependency or binge drinking behavior. Moderation might not work for you.

Thank Golly there ain't no brothels allowed here but I rescued a lady from a NYC illicit unlicensed massage parlor a couple years ago met her online she lives with me now good amiga the greatest joy in my life.