1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

Help me - erection quality.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by The jock, Nov 11, 2021.

  1. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    Hi guys

    Currently on day 10. This is the longest i have ever gone since discovering fapping.

    I am 33 years old. I eat healthy and workout alot.

    I was masterbating some days 3-4 times a day. Sometimes more. Always atleast twice a day. My foreskin was loose from this and my penis looked worn on the edges.

    I had a girl naked two weeks ago and literally could not get it up. It was totally embarrassing.This has happened to me a few times in the past. I always have to use a pill just incase when meeting a girl first time.

    In a nutshell....Will I get strong erections and libido again If I keep at this? Will it improve my sex life? Any feedback is totally appreciated
     
    BenSarek, FpsMato and Christoph108 like this.
  2. Anonymous86

    Anonymous86 Fapstronaut

    2,815
    837
    113
    My penis' foreskin was loose from this as well. Did yourpenis also shrivel up or no?
     
    Christoph108 likes this.
  3. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    No but a woman asked me was I circumcised during the summer when she saw it
     
    Christoph108 likes this.
  4. cramok

    cramok Fapstronaut

    96
    91
    18
    This is happening to me also, where I get to the bedsheets with women and the ''BEAST MACHINE'' literally will refuse to get fit for fight. That is one of the major benefits that the NoFAP community are preaching, that it will most definitely help with erection quality and more easily achieving erections with real life experiences. That is the biggest reason I am doing this together with getting more interested in real life people and meeting girls, I've become numb to that altogether.

    Nonetheless, all of us doing this just have to give it a shot and go the minimum of 90 days or more to see for ourselves if we get anything out of it or not.
     
  5. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    Thank you for the response. It's reassuring .

    I just want the confidence again going into battle that everything is working. Im very determined to try this as I don't see any other way around it. 80 days to go.
     
    Christoph108 likes this.
  6. klogz

    klogz New Fapstronaut

    3
    3
    3
    Hey I have a heavily beat up, bruised, callused, discolored and desensitized penis from aggressive fapping multiple times a day pretty much every day of the week. I guess you could say I have a porn/masturbation addiction. Got 15 days in on hard mode before relapsing earlier today and noticed a bit more sensitivity in my dong. Also could feel arousal in that area without M but it wouldn't get hard at all. And, to be honest, I started doubting if there would be any reasonable benefits (also felt like I cheated cuz I looked at some pics a few times) but I'm sure if I had stuck with it and went the full 90 days there would've been more progress. Hopefully we can reclaim our boners at the end of 90 days.
     
    Christoph108 and The jock like this.
  7. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    Best of luck with it and thanks for sharing.

    Im on day 11 now. Meeting a woman tonight in her house. Will see what happens.
     
    Rostrock47 and Christoph108 like this.
  8. Anonymous86

    Anonymous86 Fapstronaut

    2,815
    837
    113
    I'm scared. My dick is shriveled up and tiny after prone masturbating one day. Hoping that NoFap can cure this erection quality and my libido problem.
     
    Christoph108 likes this.
  9. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    I read before that it can shrivel by an inch if masturbating too much. Should hopefully return if refrain.
     
    Christoph108 and Anonymous86 like this.
  10. Hi. In my opinion it is good to consult a doctor. Because you can be sure if you have a problem or not. If not then you will be rid of the doubt and fear. If yes, then following the doctor's advice would help you recover. This will help you to be sure about it beyond any doubt and you will have one major thing less to worry about and carry on happily with your life. :) Wishing you the best!
     
    Christoph108 and The jock like this.
  11. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    Thank you. I will try this route first and see how it goes. I really have nothing to lose.
     
    Christoph108 likes this.
  12. Don't think I'm forcing my views on you. But we can't be sure about the seriousness of the problem unless we consult an expert. Let's hope you have nothing serious. But if you do, then timely intervention is necessary to have the highest possible probability of recovering completely or to the extent which is possible. Please think about it.
     
    Christoph108 and The jock like this.
  13. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    Thank you . Appreciate it
     
  14. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    Day 12

    I have a Samsung watch. Apparently I am sleeping 40 mins more than usual.
     
    Christoph108 likes this.
  15. nathan1793

    nathan1793 New Fapstronaut

    3
    2
    3
    I had to do the same at the start of my last relationship but relationship went bad after 3 years i turned to porn and started again. Boom I'm back in another relationship gets her naked and nope nothing I started to get really annoyed having anxiety makes it 100 times worse but the right girl can seriously help you with it. So I would actually explain to her posably show her this because lots of women don't even know that porn can mess you up. In my 1st relationship I flatlined which was crap but after a reboot everything was OK I would stick with it because Ive been doing it for a week now and I'm starting to get my teenage boy instincts back and also morning wood
     
    Christoph108 and The jock like this.
  16. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    Yes definitely anxiety makes it worse. The more you think about it the worse it will be. Thanks for your feedback.

    I will stick at it and provide any feedback i have.
     
    Christoph108 likes this.
  17. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    Soon to be day 14

    Foreskin is becoming more normal and the brushing/discolouration on the edges of my penis is subsiding

    Not too sure how everything else Is going. I'm just doing my upmost to avoid porn. Iv several friends who send me vids all day on WhatsApp...I just ignore...
     
  18. Eat healthy, exercise regularly and sleep well. You will be back to normal :) Keep going!

    Ask your friends not to send you videos. My friends do understand when I say I don't want to see them. Try reasoning with your friends. If they are stubborn but you are able to avoid looking at the videos, then no problem. But if you think you might take a peep at some point of time, then delete the message as soon as you receive them or turn off 'auto download media' or block the people (it's a bit harsh though. But your goals shouldn't take a back seat) or leave the group where they share the videos.
     
    Last edited: Nov 15, 2021
    Christoph108 and The jock like this.
  19. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    Turning off auto download is a great tip. Thank you...really appreciate the input
     
    Christoph108 likes this.
  20. The jock

    The jock Fapstronaut

    48
    45
    18
    Day 15. No PMO

    Don't feel any different to be honest. Will keep logging...I want to try help others.
     

Share This Page