34 after 20 something years finally passed 30 days without MO

I'm 34 years old, been addicted to porn since 10 years old (more or less) as far as I can remember, it began when I found my parents magazine, not porn magazine but there are some pic in that magazine which began my addiction to porn. There are still hardly internet at that time, so my source are just old magazine, tv but it still hooked my up since childhood.
When I go to college, I moved to another town, have my own room, and internet connection, well it gets worse of course because I have privacy and unlimited source to outside world, I began searched any categories of porn, I fall on femdom fetish most and it goes on until I graduate, work, totally its been 20 something years, doing pmo on weekly average.
It goes on even until I'm in relationship, I still stand on no sex before marriage so it didn't really affect much on our relationship, we've been going our for 3 and half year, we got married last month, and honestly I'm confused when we're having sex, because the stimulant is so much different, from that I decided to stop PMO, I'm afraid that it will ruin our marriage.
So here I am, still 30++ days though without MO, sometimes when the urge come I still watch pic, vid shortly but still I've been able not to MO (my last streak was 26 days, that was few years ago), still struggling but at least I've experienced no energy deprivation after PMO, greatly increased my productivity.
This forum really helped me a lot, from success story (even from sad one), been with many people whom share more or less experience, help each other, There's this one thread that one fapstronaut issued PMO challenge on who can goes longer, which really motivated me, I've passed my 14 days challenge, and almost 21 days challenge hopefully I can go much longer without PMO

 

Reset after 38 days, still a big improvement, many years ago my longest streak was 26 days, gonna increase it gradually
Still watched P when I'm stressfull, get emotional, still looking a way to run away from reality even for awhile, pathetic...

 

Thank you @BenSarek ,@BKSN lets do our best

 

Thanks for the reference, I've just surfed this forum without any fundamental theory, for the past years I just youtubed, read books about porn, addiction and M.
For MO I think I kinda get the hang of it, at least I'm not forcefully did it the last time, unlike before which I did it half—consciously. As for porn I will try not to succumb to it when I'm stressed and consciously avoided it when sees one,
Self control......self control.......