Do women enjoy giving blow jobs ?

Everyone has their own things they like and dislike. Nothing wrong with men liking/disliking or women liking/disliking.

 

Do men like performing cunnilingus? As @Trobone said, each one of us likes or dislikes different things. It's not disgusting per se, it's just one more way of pleasuring the person you are with.

 

In one Facebook group I was in this girl said she preferred it to intercourse.

 

Look kid, let me see if I can help you out here. Do I love to give blowjobs? Yes. Do I enjoy having my husband go down on me? Yes. But if you were to look at it from a historical perspective I think it is fair to say that we were initially repulsed by the idea. I mean when we learned about it in middle school or elementary school the idea of sticking a penis in my mouth was gross and disgusting. I'm sure the same holds true for cunnilingus. We have visions of nasty sweaty unclean genitals and the idea of putting them in your mouth is nauseating. But we do a lot of things in life not because we like it at least initially but because we know there is a reward at the end of it. I'm sure your reward as a young teenage boy is that orgasm. We love orgasms too. An orgasm feels as good to us as it does to you. A blowjob is a means to get there just as having intercourse is. When we love you and we are connected to you at an emotional level we love nothing more than for you to be one with us. We want you inside of us in our mind body and spirit. So yes I enjoy giving my husband a blowjob because I know that makes him feel loved and cared for and I do it because it makes him feel good. We do these things and get enjoyment out of it because it brings joy to them. When you grasp that concept you too will want to go down on her just as she does you all for the same reasons. As one thing I learned early on in life I do always keep myself clean and better than average hygiene. You would do well to do the same. I applaud you for asking these sorts of questions. It's too bad our youth doesn't and instead tends to listen to all of their know it all friends that don't have a clue about sex and couldn't buy one. All that crap they watch on the internet? It's fake news and if that is the scale by which you measure your sexuality I assure you that you will come up very short. Just my thoughts on the matter. Good luck!

 

Yes most women love giving blow jobs. They like making their man feel good and they just enjoy the act of doing it too. Also, I believe women like being in control while their man is in a vulnerable state like that. Hygiene is important though and its always good to return the favour too.

 

Whenever you start a question with "Do women like...", more often than not, the answer will always be: some do.

 

My wife has never been keen on them, and often makes me wear a condom when I get one these days.

My ex (who was 17 at the time) loved giving me head, and she was awesome at it. Remember her going on me for an hour at one point...won't forget those days!!

 

Dude, you gotta be careful how you formulate that stuff. I can just hope you were 17 as well at the time.

 

I think the answer will be similar to if you reversed the question, do men like... you know what. And short answer is "it depends" One likes dogs other like cats haha

 

I challenge you to say this to your wife because ruminating about past sexual experiences with past love interests is problematic in your current relationship whether you care to admit it realize it or not. It would be like me ruminating about the enormous cock not that size really matters to us anyway but it does to you and sex I had from a former boyfriend that my husband couldn't possibly measure up to. How would that make you feel? The point being you would be smart to figure out what you need to do to get that out of your head. Just my two cents worth on it.

This implication was entirely unnecessary. That was quite the giant leap.

 

Nope, I was 22. Age of consent here in England is 16!

 

Yeah, you're probably right. I think p0rn has definitely made me that way. Tbh, if my wife told me something like you just said about a previous partner I would probably be more aroused as much as jealous, but that's the cuck-turning nature of p0rn itself that's done that to some of us.

 

No, it wasn't. In many, many countries 17 is not the age of consent and therefore against the law. If you say publicly, that a minor sucked you off you should clarify how old you were, just for your own safety. I mean do what you want, but in some countries post like that can mean trouble for you.

 

Yeah whatever. The fact remains you took a giant leap when there never was an implied age on his part whatsoever. This is the kinda crap that people take out of context because you insert information that you pulled out of your ass that wasn't there. He never said or implied he was over the age of 17 until after the aforementioned dialog which I wouldn't have bothered to answer. So I stand by my statement that it was entirely unnecessary. And it wouldn't matter anyway since age of consent in his country is 16.

 

Nope.

...which is exactly the issue I brought up.

Your opinion...fine with me. But I dont give a fuck if you think it was unnecessary or not, quite frankly.

...which was unclear before he clarified.

I don't know what you expected your comment would lead to, but I wasn't planning on discussing whether or not a comment of mine was unnecessary. Now, I had to comment on your opinion on something, which is completely trivial, further derailing this thread. I suggest we just leave it at that and bring this thread back to the topic.

Also, you can fuck right off with your passive-aggressive tone. If you have a problem, talk to me directly.

 

And the point went right over your head. But OK. Good luck with that!

 

First off, thank you so much for providing a woman's perspective on this. I think all threads on NoFap could benefit from more female perspective!

I've heard women say that they LOVE giving blowjobs and had girlfriends who've said they just don't like it. And, there can be many reasons why a woman may or may not like giving oral. Personally, I love the act of cunnilingus (though I'm not always in the mood for it), I love giving my partner pleasure and sometimes I love that it feels like an act of submission. I imagine some women might love the control it gives them, others might enjoy the sensation, possibly the taste (even the smell), or the pleasure it gives to their man. Others might enjoy how they feel about the act . . . and others might dislike anyone of these things. For some it might feel degrading. Or . . . maybe it depends on whether the lights are on or not. And I can only imagine that some women might enjoy giving it to one guy, but not to another . . . for all sorts of reasons.

Since you brought it up - is this a real experience or a hypothetical one? As a less endowed man, I expect that any woman I am with will probably have experienced bigger . . . as well as more aggressive, more athletic, more experienced lovers. Perhaps this is partly why I enjoy giving oral so much. We're not all the same. That's part of the beauty of life and I wouldn't fault my girlfriend for reminiscing about former lovers on occasion.

As for size not mattering. I was once in a human sexuality class where a woman declared, "Size doesn't matter." and all the women in the class uttered their agreement with this statement (almost as if it's a cultural mantra that all women have been trained to repeat). But then, another woman said "Well, size doesn't matter as long as he's at least average." and all the women again nodded their heads and uttered their agreement (possibly with an "Amen, sister" in there) but with noticeably more enthusiasm.

Does size really not matter, or does it just not matter much? Can a penis be too big, or too small? I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.