Small Pen*s Club - (males, females and non-binary welcome)

Thank you, baby. I am proud of you too, embracing your reality.

I think it is important that you accept the reality --- you do indeed have a small penis. Not a micro-penis (like the 1.5" one I have) but rather a smaller-than-average one likely not capable of totally fulfilling many a girls needs...and that is ok. Accepting things as they are is the first step to improving on them. There are so many ways to please a lover, and embracing that aspect is more important than wishing you somehow, someway, anyway...had a larger, man-sized, pleasure giving penis that will make your lover faint...it won't. But that does not mean you can not give pleasure. Smaller guys must get more creative in bed, especially with a lover that is used to 8, 9, or 10 inch c*cks.
I think, also, your need to share so openly your thrill about women knowing you have a small thingie is interesting...it has elements of

Spoiler: BDE subservience

BDSM and cuckolding, your submissive curious side and thinking about big, hung, manly alpha males....but we have no need to dive into that here right now. I know for a fact that it is the easiest thing to pick out in a room a guy that is packing "weaponry"....his confidence just exudes and it telegraphs through the space he occupies. Guys pick up on it, of course, and many men are attracted to the BDE that an alpha puts out.

EXACTLY!!! You are no more or less of a person...I agree. Of course!! Accepting that the "tools" you have to work with are different (smaller) than some other mens "tools" is just a start on the pathway to love-making and pleasure improvement. Embrace your tiny pee-pee, and figure out how to get and give pleasure with it.

You ARE a sweet guy, and a very doting boyfriend I bet!! I am thinking that, if you put you mind to it, you'd be an amazingly skilled oral lover (for women and alpha males, if you are possibly thinking about that). "Pounding" is probably not ever going to be your top skill, but that is a nice size for tasting and comfortable snuggle-fucking for some women. You just need to find the right girl who wants that. Not everyone wants to be spit-roasted daily and limping around afterwards!!

For me I have found my happy comfort zone in the 8"-10"+ category, but thats just me. A 6" and 7" is, well, kinda ho-hum unless the guy really knows how to kiss and seduce.

I think you just need to be creative and you will find the right woman to have a loving and lasting relationship.

 

BDE is way better than LDE.
Truth.
...now that I think about it, there is no such a thing as LDE ("little d!ck energy").
Little guys come off as little, It can't be faked. We know. Conniseurship.

 

Oh my goodness....you do not know, do you.
No girl does that to a man she sees as a real man, and a sexual-energy alpha male would NEVER put up with that. You emit a vibe (like so many guys do, and likely a huge proportion of the NoFap man-boys here) that says "I am scared, not confident, unsure...meek...etc". So, yeah, you go into the "friend zone" or, worse thing possible, you actually do really become one of her "girlfriends"...which is the death-zone. Basically, you're fucked....you've been marked as "no interest, no thrill, no sex" type of man...but you're not seen as a man. You will never be source of sexual interest, but you might be someone she toys with between lovers just for entertainment or pity.

Yes...and no.
Just make sure you don't end up being a guy-friend that she hangs out with between real lovers. Unless she cares to include you in it when it happens.
Worse, you are just a plaything. Protect your heart.

TRUST ME...it is really easy to pick up on uncertainty, lack of confidence, or discomfort. Real capable men have no need to overdo it...they just see what they like, lean in and press forward (but not in a cocky jerk dickehad way) and in doing so, just telegraph information that conveys authentic confidence in themselves and the tools and talent they bring to the potential.
Also, it really can't be faked. You have it or you don't.

What can you do to over come this?
I have had little luck having great sex with little guys...for the reasons you just described. It is sad to watch the desire in their eyes vanish as they once-again fail to produce.
I have no advice how to fix it.

 

I can fully relate to this.

 

Since this group is for members with small packages. I was just wondering if members with large and long packages are welcome to this accountability group or not , kindly point me in the direction if so

 

In my own opinion I think it's an amazing and wonderful feeling when you have found someone that has accepted everything about you whether big or small or whatever you have. We as human beings don't know how lucky we are to have someone like that, nowadays it's really hard to find people who are like that. whether your boyfriend has a small penis or the sex between you two is not satisfying I think it's better to have a calmly talk with your partner and talk to him how he can satisfy you more and as guys we must accept our girlfriends for who they are, we must accept everything about them whether small or big asses or small or big boobs, fat or slim tall or short . Cheating on your partner should not be an option, in this life it's hard to find a partner who's willing to accept you as you are, so it's best to talk with your partner.

 

When flaccid, mine is way smaller and when it is erect it gets more than double of its flaccid size, I should say 100% larger to somewhere around 5 in. My flaccid penis is way smaller, like young kids I should say This thought drives me crazy and makes me socially uncomfortable. I think I should get rid of the belly fat around navel, which is like an inch of extra fat, and if it can get removed my penis will be the only thing that comes out start from the chest and abs in the plains going down.

 

Wear briefs. The more fixed in place your erection is, the less awkward and noticeable it is. You’ll still be aware of it, but it’s highly unlikely that she’ll be able to tell. Maybe hang out with your female friends more often. Go out for coffee or something. You might get an erection, but carry on with your conversation and just let it go. Also, look at her face and not down at her breasts or her butt. Women aren’t objects for you to lust over.

 

Take a long breathe, go take a walk.

 

Congratulations!