My boyfriend no PMO 8 weeks- my reflections!

It takes a heart,takes an understanding mind and a virtue of being a truly good human being which you are,I sincerely hope you both find your destination which is peaceful and a loving life. Wish you all the best.

 

Wow I am so Happy to know about you guys! First off, you're awesome gf. It gives hope and inspiration to many to be honest with their Spouses/Partners/GFs.

I don't know if its just me or...some lines are triggering, not every person here is having his shit together. This particular line was triggering "Right now he's too busy playing with my boobs while we cuddle to hold his phone." So, next time you post, you might wanna write sth like
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Not surprising, actually. I think it is fairly common for men to end up in very strange places once they fall down the rabbit hole of escalating P use. There's plenty of science around what drives men to seek more and more P -- and more and more exotic P -- in their drive for a dopamine fix. So now that he's got a handle on things, it's not surprising that his desires are returning to baseline.

Most importantly, though, bravo to you for sticking with him and being so supportive and understanding. That's a very rare thing. I think many more men would come to honest grips with their problem if they knew it wouldn't kill the relationship.

 

I know how this works from personal experience. He should consider himself lucky he never got to the point of actually following through. I was not so lucky. It was a miracle something really awful never happened to me.

 

I know. Imagine living it all!

 

Lol reading the boobs part got some acton in my pants. Guess nofap is working then lmao hahaha

 

Its crazy how days of old. Reading that would not have got me hard, yet i would run to Porn and fapping just cuz the inkling of a sexual act popped into my brain.

Its only been almost 34 days, but my mind when reading that goes to "i gotta get a girl to do that with". Instead of the usual running to fap in my room.

Glad for you and youre bf. Hes a lucky guy. Most girls would not put up with something like this.

 

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A man going from wearing dresses to being happy just to play with boobs. Now that's a happy ending!

You are seriously an amazing girlfriend, he's really lucky to have you! My girlfriend also has been really supportive of me in my journey, but I saw that every time I relapsed it was really hurting her. I had to stop updating her on my progress. But she's still providing moral support from the sidelines basically.

It's a process. We're in a long distance relationship, so.. any time I do relapse, it's not because I don't want her or love her. It's just a selfish habit of mine that hasn't been so easy to overcome until now. For someone who has as much anxiety as her on a daily basis, this type of thing can be too much for her to handle. And she's never had any kind of addiction (not even a smartphone addiction), so she really doesn't understand the fact that this habit has been so engrained into my behavior. But it sounds like you've got your head in the right place. All the best to you guys

 

This is an act of submission. Has to do with letting control. I have done an analysis on this post http://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/sexual-extremes-and-exposure-to-porn.58384/

Maybe it can give you answers.

 

Very good to hear it is evolving so positively!
I can praise myself lucky to have a girlfriend as understanding and supporting as you are. I'm in my 4th week and not giving up on this.

 

I'd love to know what you considered to be a pivotal point....

 

You are really amazing. Your guy should be very happy, I hope he understands you are 1 out of 1000.