Not attracted to white women

Seems like these guys are fetishizing the Asian women, to the point that they can't be aroused by normal stimuli. I'd be surprised if porn wasn't a factor in that.

I've dated a couple black women who weren't into black guys, but not because they didn't find them attractive, just because they rarely met any they could relate to. That's a very different thing.

 

Whatever floats your boat.
Not sure about asian women, in the porn flicks they seem to be crying and sobbing more than enjoying it lol. Has to be annoying, unless its not really how they climax...

 

You should know better than to think that's real. Not saying you should go look to check, but that's pretty much only in the porn produced in Japan, not porn featuring Asian-American women, or even as much in porn from other Asian
countries.

It's part of the Japanese culture to fetishize youth, innocence, and victimization. Ever seen "Lost In Translation" with Bill Murray?

Japanese society is not homogenous, but the are some severely misogynistic aspects of their mainstream attitudes and treatment of women.

 

My theory is simple. some people like to eat spicy...some like to hunt and fish...some like drag racing

So like latinas or ebony. It all depends if its out there and willing. If you are in a multi-ethnic city where its common to have a black woman dating a white guy and white guy is into black woman, we got a match!

 

There's also the distinction between "what you can get" vs "what you're really attracted to". Sometimes people make peace with what they can't get by saying they don't want it. If a guy has trouble getting with attractive girls of his own race/nationality he may just say he doesn't want them.

I always had trouble relating to American girls or attracting them, but once I moved overseas I ceased having problems with women. I think the cultural differences offer some intrigue value to both people, there's always something to talk about and you're experiencing something new and exciting. When I lived in a Slavic country it was easy for me to attract beautiful women, because to them I was something new and interesting. This effect can only last so long in an interaction, but it gave me the key confidence I needed.

My girlfriend now is Slavic and I actually relate to her in a lot of ways I wouldn't relate to a typical American girl. Now the thought of dating an American (or even German) girl just seems boring or tedious to me. But that's just a generalization, I know there are nice girls out there and if I saw a really pretty one and our personalities fit (and I was single), it could work.

My point is maybe your friend is lying. Lol. If not, I would suspect PMO is involved also. Or maybe it's the opposite, he is allowing himself to be attracted to them based on their personality (and therefore cultural background), and there was something about the personalities of the white Australian girls he met that he didn't like.

Maybe he has a huge fear of being perceived as racist and this is his way of fighting it.. haha

 

I'm cause they married them off an Ad pop up from a porn site lol. They didn't get the girl on the picture!

 

That's interesting! I didn't see it this way.

 

I'm a white guy and I have next to no attraction to asian women. When I lived in South Korea as a child I obviously developed a sort of attraction because they were the only females I ever saw. For the past ten years I've lived in south Texas which is white, black, but mostly hispanic. Asians make up a very small part of the population as well as Indians. I find Asian women unattractive because they tend to be so frail and weak (Even the top female Chinese weight lifters can't grow decent butts...). Intellectually, they are good, but I already have a good IQ so my kids don't need their genes.

I think attraction is biological and the world is going to benefit a lot when we're all more mixed. For example, the blacks in America are almost all of west African decent, which leads to favorable adaptions to hot environments. While as a person of northern European decent, I'm built to tolerate the cold. I also have 4% of another sup human's genetics that they don't have. It would make sense to be strongly attracted to black women in particular because we would produce offspring that are a combination of our better mutations. As for hispanic women, they're very mixed, which is why people find them so attractive. You know how there are those women whose race you cannot identify because they're so mixed but they seem to be disproportionately more attractive than, say "pure bread" women? On average, I think hispanic women are more attractive than white women because they're a mix of Mongoloids who developed their own adaptations to the Americas, Negroids who crossed into south America thousands of years ago, and then Spanish, who were Caucasoids.

In about a thousand years, we'll probably all be a slightly tan, olive shade, with darker shades and most importantly, the average global IQ will be a standard deviation higher because, hopefully, the Mongoloids will give us their brain genes.

This is all biological and completely non-psychological though. But I do also view the existence of porn as a mechanism for the large quantity of beta males' reproduction to be cut off. In western society we kinda screwed ourselves over by having monogamous marriage - too many beta males reproduced and now we have a feminized society. If anything, rich, attractive, intelligent men ought to be polygamists so humanity can continue evolving.

Don't listen to anything I say, guys, I'm crazy.

 

You forgot to mention that millions upon millions of alpha males in the western world died in WW1 and WW2. Result that beta males became the rulers and leaders as time progressed, hence growth in welfare state, feminism and other beta male/female ideologies. While in arab world alpha males are going quite strong still today, with their crazy extremist beliefs to put extra gasoline to that fire.

Just imagine how masculine and tough european men were in the 1800s and early 1900s compare to now, how robust we europeans used to be. Also not to mention food that was free from BPA and other chemicals that mimic estrogen that we have today in our non-organic food supplies.

 

I don't really want to take this thread in that direction. Look, so much of this stuff it all in your head. Don't include me in your "we europeans". I know for a fact that I'm the physically strongest of my heritage. My dad could do a lot of push ups and run a few miles, his dad was a farmer/factor worker, his dad was a farmer/factor worker, and so on. I'm pretty sure that my great grandfather could not bench press as much as me.... You can complain about food all you want or the water having this or that effect. Look, our water doesn't kill people with the plague like it did in 1700. Yes, there are hormones in the food but are people starving to death every winter? No. If you want to be strong and robust, that's up to you man. I'm not going to say I can't get ripped or hard because this plastic is causing too much aromitization in my body.

That being said, I'm not a dick. I'm not going to shut you down and not provide you with a constructive outlook. This is a better position to approach from: We live in the most advanced, prosperous era in human history (yes GDP growth rates could be better blah... blah... blah). We have access to limitless information. We have become so advanced that machines do most of the work for us. The threshold of human existence has been raised. In life, in this era, you can spend your days on the couch, drinking beer, eating potato chips or you can bust your a**, eat good food, and stay in shape. Is fair? Yes. If you do nothing, you get a little welfare, you never have a girlfriend (if you do she isn't hot), after your 40's you can't get hard and doctors slowly medicate you to an early death. If you choose to participate in life, you can date lots of awesome women, you can marry a great woman, you can own your own business, you can stay jacked into your 70's, and die at the old age of 95, leaving wealth, ideas, and contributions for the future of humanity. Don't worry about the losers, let them keep being losers. Yeah, they'll get a little bit of your wealth through taxation but if you choose to let go and live life, they can't redistribute your joy, happiness (and most importantly, they'll never be able to redistribute hot a** b***es!).

In short, yes there's some s***y stuff going on but don't be a victim. There's ton's of pro's. Just look at the good side and you'll be happier. And stop watching infowars.

 

My nigga!

 

you all crazy...

Onto the topic about white women, I think its mainly a mixture of tastes and (to a degree) the taboo element of it all. I personally don't find Asian women the least attractive physically (maybe its the eyes?), however I still don't rule them out as potential wives or anything.

I don't believe porn has had much of an influence really, just saying.

 

Though i've had the R card thrown at me a few times by jilted people, im not really interested in coloured women personally with a almost narrow fixation on 'white women' and high standards on east asians before i really waded into the world of PMO and after.

Some of my 'well travelled' friends argue otherwise that im just being stubborn and silly for my reasons i give that im just not interested in them but my opinion is my own. I think the biggest factor is red hair, which i have a absolute fatal attraction to, in that without dye it culminates naturally in certain individuals.

 

Honestly, I think that these guys are unattracted to white ladies because of how they treated them growing up. White ladies are the most spoiled, and aggressive feminist elitist anti male females on earth(Especially the American/Canadians). Asian women are much more feminine and family oriented, they don't try to subvert you against your self either. From the white women I grew up with, most of them see me as a sex, charm object, and then when I deviate from that, showing some real masculinity, they ditch; they ditch in the most disgusting sub-human way, with text. Or they lie to your face( ITS NOT YOU ITS ME). THen comes friendzone control tactics, which is like her puting you to beta orbiter list so she can pick you later. Women from other places never treated me like this. They do at least treat me human. Careful about white woman, they are engineered to try to subvert men, family and masculinity. Sadly, this is not what they really want, but much of them realize it when they hit 30, long after their corporate drone career has been invested in, and their most fertile years gone.

Personally I've had two white women girlfriends, and a few other non girlfriends and I find them very sexy, but they have the worst attitudes. Perhaps then that is where the non-attraction stems from.

 

I have no racial preference -- that said, I have met a disproportionate number of Asians to whom I feel and immediate physical attraction, and proportionately fewer black women than those of other races.

But this is just a general trend. I have found myself physically attracted to women of all the races that I encounter on a regular basis in life or on television.

And the older I get, the more women of every color and shape I find beautiful.

 

Unless they cut your cock off in a fit of jealous rage
http://www.theguardian.com/education/2012/nov/19/improbable-research-thai-women-cut-off-penis

 

Yea, I get it. For me, as righteous as this sounds, I try to banish "they" from my language. I know, I know it's so ideological, but it's my own and right only for me. I don't need to convince anyone of my own "rightness" or "correctness." I've found that in following the "they" generalization rule I'm often misinformed.

I've heard it (dating outside one's background) psycho/socio analyzed as part of a males desire to mate with one who is furthest from his own family and/or gene pool. And of course there's the fetish thing. Then there's the fetish related theory, particularly in a conservative environment, that being attracted to another culture/ethnicity is taboo and thus creates greater intrigue. Y'know, the "curiosity thing." Which reduces "the other" to being objectified.

Personally, I've felt women of "European descent" never really gave me the time of day. It's as if, given their background, similar to their male counterparts, they have "white privilege." It's not that I find women of that background physically unattractive, it's just fewer seemed to have been friendly, accessible, or interested. Again, not as rule mind you, just as an experience. And yet I've dated a few.

If we're talking about the physical attractiveness, or more accurately, the aesthetics of a woman's background, then there may be a leaning of what an individual may find attractive. Like mentioned earlier with food. People like different stuff. Different styles, different activities, different musical tastes--and as sexist as this may sound, women are oh so musical.

As the wonderful script in The Imitation Game cites: "The interesting question is that 'Just because something thinks differently from you does that mean it's not thinking?' Now we allow humans to have such divergencies from one another. You like strawberries. I hate ice-skating. You cry at sad films. I am allergic to pollen. What is the point of different tastes, different....preferences if not to say that our brains work differently, that we think differently?"

While this may be in reference to whether a machine can think, rather than limit the idea to who or what is thinking I like to expand on the idea of thinking differently among people. Just because someone cries at sad films and another hates ice-skating does that mean either is "right?"

One thing that struck me when I realized I was "able" to date women that weren't of the same background as I, was that other than outward appearance, most weren't all that different from me in the most human or deepest sense.

Believe me, I've made the error in dating (and even in one case marrying) a woman based on libido. It's then one realizes that attractiveness isn't just clear skin, straight teeth, and a thin figure. Attractiveness certainly isn't compatibility.

And simple statistics would show restricting one's self to dating a single cultural background (whether inside one's own background or not) lowers chances of compatibility. To be clear, I'm not suggesting compatibility is the same as commonality. It's likely that individuals have more in common with a common background. Yes, I'm equating compatibility with long, fruitful, fulfilling, intimate (on all levels) relationships. The compatibility of dating someone with a lot in common is a discussion at another time.

Rather than tell myself, "She's attractive," I must be honest and ask, "What makes her compatible?" It's then I realize that being "hot" isn't simple physical aesthetics, and then realize that "Hot has no color."