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Not attracted to white women

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Waldo101, Feb 18, 2016.

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  1. Gladiatori

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    I think every race of women has done that :D This isn't a bad thing either. You force your husband to be faithful to you, as he should. Family life and devotion of Thai women is of a standard many many times stronger than here, believe me. Laos' people, cambodia, thai, philipines, burnese all of these hard places, have loyal women due to that, so that betrayal of her man is likewise many times stronger.
     
  2. Integral

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    I will be honest. I am British-Indian and growing up I always was attracted to girls of the same cultural and ethnic background. When I started watching porn aged around 15 or 16, I was using a hip-hop forum a lot and those guys were sharing ebony porn a lot. I developed an interest in black women from that point, and it then morphed to any woman with a big ass lmfao....

    I am committed to no-PMO now and I just want to go back to how my brain was before all this shit....
     
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  3. Gladiatori

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  4. Aaron_0

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    Opposite for me. I started with big booty stuff and eventually also became interested in some ebony. :D

    Isn't it great how porn has expanded our ability to objectify woman of all types? :confused:
     
  5. TheHeroOfCourage

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    Race should not be a determining factor in finding a person attractive. It should be solely based on their qualities and heart.
     
  6. Baroque

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    Your friend probably got tired of his own women treating him like shit and convinced himself he's not attracted to white women.
     
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  7. Ikindaknew

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    I understand you point. But there is definitely a difference in education and in cultural background in different ethnicity. I only had sex and relationship with white North-American girls.
    I have nothing against it, but I believe that other cultures have a different view on the ladies willingness to please.
     
  8. badwithusernames

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    And dismissing an entire race or culture as unattractive because of the colour of the skin is dicey at best.
     
  9. Aaron_0

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    Well, I've experienced physical attractions to women of every race, but I'm not attracted to all body types. (Most, but not all)

    I don't think people choose what they find physically attractive; not that environmental factors or cultural bias don't play into it, but it's not a choice that's made at a conscious level.
     
  10. Integral

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    I truly think that people that people with more balance in their lives and people who do not engage in a lot of PMO like us actually do not have much racial preferences in dating or anything. If you think about it skin colour is not that helpful in predicting how a person will act.

    I want my sexuality to reset personally, I don't require a distorted and dysfunctional sense of attraction from PMO. I suspect when I'm deep into hardmode reset I won't have much preference at all.
     
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  11. I am white and find only white women attractive, even though I am not racist. Asian women have too small breasts for me!
     
  12. Aaron_0

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    This is a trend, not a rule. As such, there are exceptions. A lot of them.
     
  13. Gladiatori

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    Personality is most important for me, but she has to at least take care of her body, and be at least a little pretty.
     
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  14. Aaron_0

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    Funny thing for me, BBWs kinda turn me on (derp. like most women), but I'd never want to marry an obese woman because of all the increased health problems associated with the condition.

    I'm weird about health stuff. I'd never call it quits with someone I love because they developed a health issue, but pre-existing health conditions are definitely something I think about when evaluating a potential spouse.
     
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  15. Gladiatori

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    Yeah. I evaluate potential partners like an insurance agent. Shallow, in its own way, but at least I'm looking at something that matters on the long term!
     
  17. Aaron_0

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    I'm shallow about money, too. I need a girl with a compatible personality either way (and I am crazy picky about that), but I'd trade looks for money in an instant, provided she looks good enough that I don't, like, recoil at her touch. Average looks are fine for me, but diamonds are forever. :D
     
  18. Aaron_0

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    Unfortunately, I'm not really "Trophy husband" material; Well, I'm crazy friggin' smart and educated, but I'm average height and suuuuper skinny.

    I've actually had women say the following phrases to me: "I'd date your brain," "Your brain is fuckable," and "You are so cool, but I could never be attracted to your skinny body."

    So who's shallow now?:mad:

    (granted, I've also met women for whom the skinny body was not an issue or was even a turn-on. different strokes, I guess.)
     
  19. Aaron_0

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    You sure know how to make a girl feel special.
     
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  20. TheHeroOfCourage

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    Before I too used to think looks mattered. However, since starting NoFap, I have realized how unfair it is to judge someone based on their physical body. Why should we? Did they choose the way to turned out physically? No, they didn't, at all.If someone is physically ugly, but does their best to present themselves nicely, and doesn't let their looks lower their self worth or confidence, then that truly is a more attractive person than some hot chick with a nice bod but has despicable qualities (like being a gold digger or something like that).
     
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