How would you best describe how porn feels compared to real sex?

In pmo you can just watch any kind of porns and to fap on it. Your hand know how to pleasure yourself.
In sex you must think not only about you its a double work, you may be not always satisfied from sex couse you compare it with pmo. As long as you get rid of pmo sex become just super awesome becouse is the only way you can reach an orgasm.

After you fap you feel like shit
After sex you feel like a king

 

The statement is very logical. Unfortunately addiction to porn defies logic.

Sometimes my body wants to orgasm and orgasm now. My wife may not be available at my time of need, but my smartphone is available right now when I need it. It is not that porn and masturbation is better than real sex with my wife (in fact it is nowhere close), porn is simply more available than she is.

This is the problem that I find myself in. My goal is that if I become aroused, and my wife is not available or up for it, then TS to me. I need to cease my selfish desires and wait patiently until the time is right for both me and my wife.

We can then rock each other's world in bed.

 

Are you saying that porn is not addictive? Or are you saying that I am not a "true addict"?

I most definitely prefer real sex over porn.

You provide sound advice that I should quit using porn and have real sex instead. Just have a little more will power.

Geez I never thought of that!!!

I should tell the depressed person on this forum to cheer up. I should tell the overweight person to stop eating so much. I should tell the anxious person to calm down. I should tell the shy lonely person to get out and meet someone.

From what I know about drug addicts, they prefer real life over the drug that they consume. It is the addiction itself that compels them to continue using the very same drug that they despise.

Same thing with pornography. It can be addictive.

 

Lol what kindof question is that? Sex of course.
Pussy>porn

 

- after pmo, I feel emptiness, regret, bad feelings
- after having sex with my boyfriend I feel happy, fulfilled and whole.

 

Porn is easy, cheap and on demand. Probably the reason why it's so popular. Fast or unhealthy food is easy, cheap and on demand as well I'm guessing that's why it's much more popular than healthier foods.

 

I'll take what's available - I'm a dopamine addict. Women, you bet, early and often . . . porn, sure.... I'm a pig, I eat whatever's available.

 

Sums up why we get addicted to those things in the first place. Easy is, well, easy. Hard work is underrated nowadays with all we have available to us. I know when I was deep in the addiction there's no way I could get into a relationship unless it was by chance. So if I couldn't do that, well why stop? lol

I jerked off because I was lonely.
I was lonely because I jerked off.

Endless cycle that I finally broke through.

 

Porn orgasm is like how I feel when I eat McDonalds.

Real orgasm is how I feel when I eat steak and roast potatoes.

 

We all know that real sex with a partner is far better and more fulfilling than PMO.

But we PMO despite knowing this fact.

I question the point of @gen66 's poll when he is simply stating something that we already know.

 

Comparing porn to real sex is like comparing watching a sunset on TV to one in real life. It may look good in HD but it's still fake.

 

There is no comparison. Porn and your hand is not sex. It's wanking. A solo endeavor. To compare porn-wanking to sex is like trying to compare you running up and down a basketball court by yourself vs. actually playing ball on a team. The first isn't basketball at all, and the feeling doesn't remotely resemble the thrill of sport. So it is with wanking vs. sex.

 

The mistake here is putting the emphasis on orgasm. A lot of times, I have had better orgasms from masturbation than sex, but I still prefer real sex. Touching another person, moving my whole body, interacting with someone, sharing things with them, experiencing the unexpected, a sense of tenderness.

I like to have an orgasm when I have sex, but there are other aspects of sex that are far more important.

 

I must be an idiot because i prefer porn orgasm..

TRIGGER ALERT

When I had sex I couldn't orgasm, I couldnt feel anything..like I could tell the person was there but thats it...before I was thinking..is he even thrusting? How come I cant feel a darn thing. I just laid there and got bored. He told me he almost came in me 5 times..i didnt feel it..he even told me he had to pull out a few times..i didnt even feel him go out...its not like he was small he was 8 inches..

 

^ This.

If the question is "which is better: porn or sex" then I think/hope everyone on the planet would be smart enough to realize it's the latter. But if you're asking which orgasm is better, that's definitely not always the case. Definitely hasn't always been the case for me, and I can't imagine anyone can honestly say they haven't had at least one solo O that was better than with a partner. It's easier, when porn is involved it's stimulated to an impossibly high level, and you know exactly what you want and when you want it in terms of pressure and speed, etc. It's kind of a no brainer.

I also think OP is really confused about what an addiction is....

 

Real sex is better but the animal brain is irrational, it goes for the nearest source of dopamine. Just doing the logical thing isn't easy because porn dependency isn't logical.