How i made it to 90 days easy.

You are completely right!. Could not have described it better how to quit P and M. NoFap isnt just about not fapping. Its also about building some meaning to your life. Keeping more time and energy for things you always wanted to do/achieve. Build your own life

 

what is RSD about? is it free? where can i learn more?

 

Hey Thechosenone,
Can you please answer these questions?

What is RSD?
What is the meaning of PMO?
What is the meaning of Fap?
Thanks.

 

Very useful post! I'm on day 26 now and iam already feeling the benefits .im on my way to 90 and ill definitely reach 90 days

 

Make your goals bigger than your problems - I love it

 

That is awesome. Great to hear. Especially the fact that you are going out there learning and evolving. If you continue on the path you are taking by your late 20s and your 30s will be an amazing time of your life.

 

yep, you have to have something big to move TO.
weirdly enough I find not showering also is a trigger for me - do i start to smell my own phenomes or something? or is it just the ritual of cleaning the body helps the mind want to be clean.....

 

@Thechosenone .........great stuff! No nonsense. No filler. No BS. What's the accountability group? Thanks !

 

I hear you and I feel you. I know about life's challenges and how rejection, loneliness, and other depressions fuck with your head. And porn was the easiest thing to kill the pain temporarily. But the pain continues and it gets worse and worse and worse.

I'm with you on having social skills to talk to women and make friends with them and make them your girlfriend. I have taken lots of courses by RSD and I think it's a good starting point. One thing that bothered me a little bit about their program is the goal was to close. I think there is more to life than to have sex with a woman. I think the interaction is amazing, the first kiss, and the romance is of course amazing. Yet I do recommend them for having information and content to help us man become more comfortable.

My problem started when I was in high school and all of my classmates had girlfriends or had tutorials liking them and nobody was liking me, or let me put it this way I had no attractive girls expressing any interest to me. I don't know if this letter to my rejection, loneliness, or the inability to be accepted into society. Yet the many years to overcome that fear.

Thanks for the great post

 

Tutorials on how to have or get a girlfriend? I'm sorry dudes that sounds like some lame BS. Be your own man! You have your own set of balls. Be yourself. Be confident in you. Don't follow others or care what anyone else thinks about. Love yourself fiercely. Be super comfortable in your own skin and a genuine cool dude to all. You won't need a tutorial the girls will come to you.

 

I respectfully disagree. I'm a grown man. I don't need to watch a tutorial to know to act in social settings. I've learned from my father. I've learned from myself through observation and understanding. If that's what you consider "ignorant " I'm fine with it.

 

Learning from your own direct knowledge and direct experience is a deeper level of internalizing what your Truth is. Find it yourself. I'm not concerned about what is true for someone else. When I sit down for a nice meal I don't have someone chew the food for me.

 

I agree with what you said and at the same time there's nothing wrong with learning from others. For someone who has no experience with women I think they have to learn from somewhere or someone. Thus reading about picking up girls, having a conversation, and so on is a great idea to find the basics. Once you learn the basics you can have your own style and knowledge for what works best for you.

When I was young I did not have any experience with women at all and thus reading from different gurus and others who put the materials out there help me a lot. Do I use it today? Hell no!

It takes a long time to become a self independent man who does not need external factors. Were talking about sages and prophets. and I hate to say this but most of us will never reach a level with a close connection for higher power.

So both of you are correct. It's okay to learn and read about picking up women. Once you learn the basics you find your own style. And your style will change with time.