Any other asexuals here on NoFap.com?

How can you be asexual and addicted to porn?

 

Oh, I am glad this popped up again. I was going to comment and couldn't find it again.

I have a friend that is asexual. I am one of a few she has told about it and I was honored that she told me. I get so upset when people say, oh, you aren't asexual, you just haven't found the right person. Or deny it's even a real thing. People are ignorant.

I'm glad you answered again because I was going to ask if you thought it was a porn induced thing or if it came before porn or without porn. (Which can happen, sometimes people feel asexual or wish they were asexual.) It sounds like not, if you aren't really addicted to porn.

Anyway, I found this yesterday, which I thought was educational on the question of masturbation for asexuals. http://www.asexualityarchive.com/but-asexuals-cant-masturbate-2/

 

Oh my, what an awful thing! That's horrible.

 

I am curious if you have ever read a book called "Seven Pillars of Wisdom" by T.E. Lawrence? The reason I ask is that there is a subset of people who strongly believe he was asexual (there is no clear documentation of him having sexual relations with anyone over the course of his life). His life and times may be interesting to you and his thoughts may be thoughts world examining.

 

I had been wondering if I was asexual for awhile but have recently decided that it doesn't matter as I don't plan on having sex until I get married.
I used to have some trans thoughts but they have stopped.

 

Hey bdomagala, I used to identify as an asexual earlier but now I'm more in the grey area between asexual and sexual so I don't use the identity for me but I can still relate to this!

I'm wondering, when and why did you start identifying as asexual and was it before you started M or after?

 

Ah so your story is a bit different than mine. As you said, everyone is different. I can still relate to the ace community but prefer calling myself grey-a, though most of the time I'm not actually thinking about what I am in terms of sexuality, I just am. Also I must say that P and M has moved the needle a bit more into the sexual direction because I'm curious about the experience of sexual intercourse now but can't see it happen soon.

 

I started to be asexual lately. My `penis` is alive, but its not interessed into porn, masturbation, or random girls on streets.

Its working only when I need, and with the right person.

Its better then being sexual for me, by far, it lets my develop into other directions very quick and far. My performances are better then ever.