I Find Porn Disgusting Now

i did not PMO for 10 days now and i dont wath porn but when i think about sex i also find it disgusting. not only porn but sex also

 

I think your Porn use has distorted your view of sex, I feel with NoFap if you continue on the path, the idea of Sex will become more natural to you and the realness of sex will have a deeper meaning for you.

Genuinely there is nothing better than sharing your body, mind and soul in a sexual union with someone you love, adore and find absolutely attractive and even better, they feel the same exact way about you too.... its amazing trust me. (btw I am currently single)

 

i have never actually had sex with someone i loved. and i am not good at meeting girls so that is why i don't have sex and i have no woman in my life. i just don't know how to aproach women. i always had sex with prostitutes and i find it disgusting now. well even digging in someones body with part of your body is now disgusting for me. i do not want to have any sexual relationship with anybody because i find it disgusting. i want a woman but i do not see myself with one because of i'm lame at meeting them and i find sex disgusting. so... i think i might have be single for ever

 

it takes time man, I am 31, took me most of my twenties to meet girls with substance, it can happen, you've made a start with NoFap, just don't be so hard on yourself man.

 

NoFap is a great start for you ursamajor. It sounds like you could also use some counseling though. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Learning to overcome past difficulties and traumas to aide in having healthy relationships is a great thing that you should strive for.

 

that would be the best but in slovenia we have no people who can help you learn. youtibe videos are not what i want because they all start at the midle not at the begining. and my english is also not that good

 

How do you get past 3 day mark? (cries)

 

so true my friend. i use glasses to read and i'm 27. i noticed that after i PMO my body feels so tired and i have no will to do anything. but the worst thing that can happen to me is that my eyes get so tired during the day that i can not read even with glasses. orgasms take you so much energy... it is pure destruction to your body. i have a lot of fanatsies about sex but i do not want to masturbate because i know it will take days to recover the energy within my body. i do not want this. this is like you work so hard to buy a new house. but you want even bigger house so you go to the casino hoping that you will win some more money but you lose 90% of your money you worked so hard for. so now you can not buy even a dogs house. would you not feel like bag of shit? i would for sure

 

Well done. That is progress. It is disgusting and degrading. Powerful messages. Thanks!

 

Regarding developing relationships (personal and at work), there are good podcasts that have helped:
http://theartofcharm.com/category/podcast-episodes/

Check out some of the first episodes, which cover basics like body language, smiling, etc. Stuff that makes others want to talk with you, and you with them.

Works from Tony Robbins and Tim Ferriss are also commendable.

Also consider writing out the must-have attributes that you would want in a partner. The things that matter most to you. You attract that which you contemplate, so contemplate the person that would bring out the best version of you.

Stay strong and best of wishes!

-George

 

Hi cubs2516, In a deep flat line, im on day 91 and been in flat line for most of it, have no libido, morning woods, no desire for opposite sex, not much desire for anything really, just mood swings and a low down feeling,had enough! wheres the end?
How long were you in flat line?

 

Awesome.

P is really twisted. We're watching another two people have sex. Especially when those people don't even like each other, and are just acting for the camera.

I'm still early in the process (day 14), but P seems to be gradually getting less and less appealing. And my conscience is more and more indignant about P.

 

I know this is 4 years old but I started realizing this in the past few days. I'm over 50 days into my current NoFap and Im starting to see why other long distance fapstronauts start to look at porn the way they do.

Which must mean my prefrontal cortex is working properly again.

 

Don't push the porn test too many times - it will bite you eventually.

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Agreed. I tell myself “does this progress my life?”. The answer is no, so I don’t do it.

 

I did a porn test once on a long streak and I had no response. I couldn't tell if I have PIED, flatline, or just lack of arousal to it bc I can see thru it like OP. lol... very strange. I agree though, don't test yourself like that very often. It will definitely bite you!