Do not use dating sites

My personal opinion and lesson!
Do not use dating sites period, especially while on reboot! Thats like going to a bar and demanding non alcoholic drinks, while giving up drinking! Everyone knows what those sites promote and what most guys want from there! I know personally how many times ive looked trying to get some! I'm not going to name apps becuase i dont wanna trigger someone, but some of you know what I mean! If you wanna make things easier on yourself, dont use dating sites or apps!

 

Man, when I was on day 30 or something, I continued to use dating websites. Sure, it did make me feel some strong urges, but I eventually blocked it out and continued using them. lmao I wan't there to get off at pics, but to hook up a one night stand. I don't recommend this to everyone though, as it does take a level of will power, or whatever you want to call it.

But yeah, most dating sites are riddled with scams. The paid ones have much less scammers, but I never tried a paid version before. I can give you some red flags to look out for when deciding if one is a scammer or not, trust me. lol

Eventually I got tired of that shit, went on craigslist and hooked up with a twink for a one night stand, lost my virginity. It's not even a big deal bro, losing your virginity, but some things must be burried right? Anways, keep your head up, spread love an positivity, and continue the strong nofap fight.

By the way, I can't and don't recommend anyone to go on craigslist. Let's just say you better pack heat if you wanna venture into this, because things can turn from alright to HELL real quick in the real world. Whatever you do, be safe.

 

Thanks for your question! In my personal opinion, take it day by day! Don't make a goal, a week, a year, or any timeline. What happens is you think its been 45 days and im halfway there, thats good enough.
I always tell people tomorrow never comes! What I mean is I would be like, I'll quit tommorrow, next week or after I'm done with this girl. Its always one lame excuse for another.
Do it today! Delete the account and app right now! I've used those apps countless times and got burned and hurt! Take it from me, the shame and guilt isn't worth the rush! I've quit all that crap since September and my brain is detoxing and healing!

 

Not everyone has a lot of options to meet people offline. I sure don't. I often work twelve hour days when I am not on weekends or holidays & as I am a teacher it is predominantly women & little kids. Not men. I DO on occasion go to meet ups & stuff but I rarely like the guys or vice Versa. But I don't get triggered by dating sites anyway and perhaps for people who DO and who DO have more time to meet people in real life then stay off them. I don't have a decent body and I only have face photos on there, no bikini shots and nothing sexual in my profile. But yes for some people, avoiding dating sites makes rebooting easier. I LIKE nice abs, but it doesn't get me all horny. If it DID I'd probably have to avoid them too! Plus I live in the UK where guys have to often be drunk to even APPROACH a woman! So it's not like one rule for all. But I appreciate for some people yes it may help to avoid them.