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REBOOTING IS USELESS - 90 days reboot result -

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Fap_the_Fap, Apr 18, 2017.

  1. Fap_the_Fap

    Fap_the_Fap Fapstronaut

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    At some point of time in my life, i will fap or i will have sex.
    Same thing will happen if i do any of these two , so why these withdrawal symptoms?
    Do u think i need more time to recover?
     
  2. Fap_Doc

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    Not sure really. But you could be suffering from psychological incoherence.
     
  3. Fap_the_Fap

    Fap_the_Fap Fapstronaut

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    No sir i am not, im perfectly fine with no incoherence,
    I want to enjoy orgasm without any chaser effects and not feel desperate to fap. that is my goal and im quite clear about it but unfortunately you dont understand that im having that chaser effect, and thats what im asking,
    do i need more time to recover? another 90 days?
     
  4. Fap_Doc

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    I can only work with the symptoms you have. Tell me more and maybe I'll help you better. Are you experiencing anything else?
     
  5. Buzz Lightyear

    Buzz Lightyear Fapstronaut

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    There is your problem right there. Save it for a woman. Until then you are in monk mode!
     
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  6. Fap_the_Fap

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    When i quit pmo, i experience same symptoms after 2 months.
    Now, after 90 days when i orgasmd, i feel exact same symptoms in 2 days and the urge to fap is too much.
    You can say, this time I hit my flatline in 2 days rather than 2 months , whats going on?
     
  7. Fap_Doc

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    annnd why did you orgasm after having gone 90 days, presumably without porn, masturbation or orgasms??
     
  8. Fap_the_Fap

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    Ok i get you bro, but with woman too im going to orgasm right?
    So these symptoms will again come back, isnt it? Its all about dopamine released during orgasm right?
     
  9. I have no idea and can't answer your question. As I already wrote I had 2 periods of NO-PMO, each 6 months, and I did not have any "withdrawal symptoms". All I recommand: try to relax. I guess there were too unrealistic expectations in your mind and now you have to come back to yourself. All is well. Be proud about your 90 days, set back your counter and start again, maybe with a 30-days-period.
     
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  10. Fap_the_Fap

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    Because i wanted to test what is going on, i wanted to see if my penis and reproductive system is working find down there or not, just out of curiosity, i didnt had any urges then
     
  11. Buzz Lightyear

    Buzz Lightyear Fapstronaut

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    No, with a woman it is different, and then preferably with someone you are intimate with. the I/You has quite a different dynamic to the I/It.
     
  12. Fap_Doc

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    Having successfully tested your reproductive system in its entirety, don't you think it's wise to test other organ systems?
     
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  13. Fap_the_Fap

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    If i have sex and have orgasm , same thing is going to happen because of dopamine rush.
    so that means, i need more time to reboot, 6 months of nofap?
     
  14. The problem here is the fact that you had unrealistic expectations, because this is the fact many people overlook.

    ALMOST NOBODY FULLY RECOVERS (AKA IS FULLY REBOOTED) AFTER ONLY 90 DAYS. THAT NUMBER IS A FALLACY!

    You may need 3 or four times 90 days to recover. Your symptoms now, simply demonstrate that you are not recovered. Testing yourself like you did is pointless and self-defeating. You need to write your personal history of your porn and masturbation use otherwise, how can we advise you and support you with managing your expectations. So, stay strong.
     
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  15. Fap_the_Fap

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    All i want to ask sir , is why these withdrawal symptoms after fapping first time after 90 days?
    Nofap is supposed to cure you of this addiction in 90 days, so why these withdrawal symptoms now after 90 days?
     
  16. Fap_the_Fap

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    Ok i get it, so how long should i abstain from sex/orgasm this time to fully recover?
    6 months or 12 months of nofap, no sex?
     
  17. Fap_the_Fap

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    Hey thanks man i really like your comment.
    How long do you think i need to go without sex, without pmo this time, and how will i know i am cured?
    3 or 6 months of no sex no pmo?
     
  18. This was exactly the reason I ended my first 6-month-period. Today I consider this curiosity as a trick of mind. No problem at all. We are human. So are you. It's your choice to make a new start or not. I admire your strength concerning the 90 days abstinence.
     
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  19. Thanks. Well, as I said: "You need to write your personal history of your porn and masturbation use otherwise, how can we advise you and support you with managing your expectations."
     
  20. Buzz Lightyear

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    as I said, monk mode until you find yourself a good woman. Actually it will help you find a good woman; first, you will be putting yourself out there; and second, if you have your libido under control, you will be selective.
     

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