23 y/o M Just Married

Like many, I started using porn in middle school. I didn't of it as porn, because it wasn't video or pictures that got me, it was stories.

I love books so the stories "worked" well for me and lulled me into an addiction. By the time I lost my virginity (freshman year of college), I had built up such a resistance that I couldn't orgasm with a condom on (very problematic).

I was thirty days into a reset (sans NoFap) when I met the woman that is now my wife, and we share amazing intimacy, but I began to use porn and masturbation again as stress built, and my resistance resurged and desire to have sex with now-wife waned. Even worse, sexual thoughts and dreams of other women became prevalent.

We were legally married yesterday, and I am about to leave for four months of training with the military, so it seems like an appropriate time to get my shit together.

I am committing to no more masturbation or porn (stories or otherwise) and no orgasm from the day I leave until she visits (obviously, I'm an addict, not an asshole).

Here's to day 1.

 

I have the emergency button on my phone (my main source of porn). And I have enrolled in the academy. What other strategies should I consider.