3 weeks- but all for nothing

Don't do it, it really isn't worth it.

 

If you relapse you are going to prove yourself that you are powerless against this habit.Would you like to be the person that the only thing he accomplished in his life is measured on how many p websites he subscribed and how many times he can relapse in a day?Take it to the chin and move on.Sometimes you feel like you need to give up but that is the moment you need to keep moving forward because better days are coming

About the girl you like.Have you ever thought that she is doing it to make you jealous?It is just a theory but it could be it.You say it drives you crazy but the point is if you are showing it and the reason that she is doing it is the one i mentioned then it is like adding fuel to the fire.If she does not like you then maybe she likes plenty of attention.In my opinion you have two choices:

1)Tell her how you feel and if she feels the same way all well and good if not..at least you got that weight of your shoulders
2)Play the game.Show no interest and she will stop if she sees that there is no response from you.But be careful if you are absolutely sure she likes you then this could work or it could make the opposite,make her think that you just don't care anymore.Risky to say the least

I recommend option number 1 because it is the most secure and leaves no doubt.Or you could wait and see where this leads you.Up to you to decide but whatever you do DON'T relapse

 

I would personally go with w95chris' option #2. But that's your decision if you want to make a decision. I hope it all goes well. And plus, this happened to me twice. It's honestly easy to deal with females when you've dealt with one for a while.

 

If you feel depressed don't worry it will go away in time also the loneliness also.Be happy man even if you don't feel like it because if you do so then you will start to feel better and when you feel better you do better.Focus on some of the good things in life

Well in the worst case scenario if she does not feel the same it will be awkward a lot to say the least but you should try something like this: "For a long time now (or from the moment i saw you if that is the case) i really like you and i want to be with you (or you could say i want us to be together if you feel like it).It kills me seeing you with other guys and i had to get this weight off my shoulders.If you don't feel the same i will understand and move on"

I really do hope you can find the courage to tell her.Either way think like this:

I am not in a relationship with her and if i tell her how i feel she will either say that she feels the same or she will say that she does not.If she likes me then all good and well if not then i will be able to move on knowing that she was not for me.It is a win-win situation so up to you my friend

 

I would add an option #3. Have an abundance mind-set and realize the truth, that there are plenty more fish in the sea its as simple as that. If she is not interested in you then so what? You will meet plenty more girls and then you will see that it does not matter anymore you have options. This is what I have learnt from my years doing online dating. You meet this amazing girl you think she could be the one but for whatever reason it does not work out. And then for a short period you wonder if you will ever meet someone like that again. And then BOOM when you least expect it out of the blue you find someone else! You see there is no reason to put any girl on a pedestal because they are not as special as you make them all out to be.

We are all the same you only think she is this goddess because she is so attractive and every guy wants her. Well there are loads of girls like that and you know what some of them are really going to be into you so why are you chasing tail? Be an alpha not a beta you can do whatever you want just believe in yourself.

 

@Daviesmark1 i will tell you what i think about things in life.I keep in my mind that everything happens for a reason and if you think that you just missed a good opportunity then think again because something better is on its way.Tell her how you feel and if she is not interested in you then ok no bad feelings just move on because you will find somebody else and you will be grateful afterwards that you found out and were able to move on.Imagine being stuck in the unknown and every day not knowing if she likes you and not being able to move on...that would be painful to say the least

Anyway it is up to you.Just be confident and believe in yourself

 

You never get a super hard erection for a real girl if you relapse.

It ain't worth it

 

Truer words were never spoken...
No matter what happens with this girl, you are doing these for yourself pal, never forget that.

 

Jeez, that sounds tedious. And frustrating. There's nothing like jealousy to give you a good kick in the gonads..