PIED or PE

Hi I've been pmo free for a week now and I've been struggling to get it up with my girlfriend. I'm having a hard time telling if my problem is PIED or just performance anxiety. I can get hard with my girlfriend but cannot stay hard after I get a condom on. I can achieve an erection and hold it by stroking myself slowly and thinking about my girlfriend. I haven't done many other tests to see which one it is. I've been into kinky categories for a while but my girlfriend is just as kinky and is willing to do whatever. I'm looking for any advice as I am hoping this is just a case of new girlfriend PE.

 

That's very unfortunate, I mean we have only really tried to have sex twice and one of those times it was in the back of my car in borax daylight and people walking by kept interrupting. I really hope I don't have PIED and if I do how long does such a reboot take.

 

Okay thank you for the advice. I'm just looking to be able to have sex with my girlfriend.