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When can I expect my first wet dream?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Eridan, Jul 17, 2017.

  1. Eridan

    Eridan Fapstronaut

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    I've never had a wet dream in my life, not even as a teenager, likely due to my constant fapping since the start of puberty. I'm on day 37 of no PMO right now and still waiting. How long does it usually take for a wet dream to happen (I'm 23 years old)?
    Also, when can I expect flatline to start? Right now, I'm hornier than I ever was. Just a casual chat with a moderately attractive girl is enough to get me aroused... it gets in the way of living my life normally, I'm almost looking forward to my flatline to be honest
     
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  2. andromeas

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    You are lucky
    Because every night emmision accordind chinese medicine is because of weakness of kidneys orhttps://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Succubus
    To steal your energies ( because after stoping masturbating you have much better energy for them to be feed them)
     
  3. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

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    You can expect to have one when you least expect it. They have a mind of their own. They leave a bit of a mess, but it all comes out in the wash. They are not a relapse, unless you fall to the chaser effect and follow up one with a PMO session.
     
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  4. Headspace

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    My first wet dream occurred after about 6 months of hard mode (I was 26 then), and I never experienced flatline.
     
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  5. Eridan

    Eridan Fapstronaut

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    I'm not superstitious, but thanks for your input.

    So there's no way of predicting it in any way at least approximately? I'm going to travel quite a bit over the summer, so an unsolicited wet dream might cause me some embarassment.

    Did your urges diminish over time? If not, how did you cope with them?
     
  6. Headspace

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    In that case, you better should not travel. Just stay at home and may be have a binge or two.
    Just kidding. Don't worry. When you travel there are many things that could go wrong, so I'd say just note it and move on.

    It's been a while since then. I haven't found the sort of will power and determination I had back then again. After eight months I relapsed and haven't gone beyond 40 days since then. I definitely felt better about myself, but I can't really make an appropriate statement about PMO urges, as my general sexual cravings were quite high.
     
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  7. Wet dreams bring good and bad things. They bring relief, yes, but they often also bring the chaser effect, which will force you to battle stronger desires for a time. Wether or not you take the steps to encourage them is up to you.
     
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  8. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

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    If Murphey's laws have any validity, it will happen when you while you are dozing off on the airplane or napping on a full beach. Yes, they can be embarrassing, but so far there are no known instances of anyone dying from a wet dream. Accidents happen; few feel so good. Enjoy your travels.
     
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  9. Darth Buji

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    Bro, I literally wondered the same thing for the longest time. I'm 22, day 31, and I've also never experienced a wet dream. Good to know I'm not alone.
     
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  10. xedger

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    Yeah, you may never have one at all depending on how your body deals with it. I did 100 days hard mode last year and never had a WD. Don't ask me where it all went. Apparently it can be re-absorbed by the body, and that must be true although I still find it hard to get my head around.
     
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  11. Eridan

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    OK, thanks everyone! I'll try to forget about it and focus on things that matter instead. I'll just embrace the notion that it will come at the most inconvenient of times. Sounds kinda fun, actually. It might turn into a fun story. After all, there's no need to feel embarassed about having a wet dream - it happens to most men. Women aren't shamed for having periods either.
     
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  12. Eridan

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    Got my first wet dream tonight on day 68, thankfully, at home in my own bed, without anyone else knowing. The dream was very odd (like dreams usually are), but it involved a naked woman, so I can't say I didn't like it.
     

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