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Post published by hope4travis

Saturday afternoon, Taylor G Godoy’s talk was very touching for me. He started with a story of a young boy with an illness whose phrase was “one more day.” He was heard to utter it while at the Temple (Nauvoo I think?). The next day he passed away.

I was touched because that has been my go to phrase for 1000+ days in this community. I have used it countless times to encourage others and myself to just strive for one more day, let the bigger picture take care of itself, just be porn/fap free for 24 hours. One minute at a time. I was humbled to tears to share such a philosophy with this young boy.

In truth, I have at times worried though, that my encouragement might be too similiar to the “eat drink and be merry for tomorrow we die” philosophy found amongst those in a darker path in the scriptures. Both favor the short goal by focusing on that rather than the long term goal. I’m favoring virtue and chastity, but still... I worried. Elder Godoy's talk gave me courage.

I have pondered this further and come to realize that _we must learn to manage the moment, or we will not be able to manage the future._

This single sentiment has been one of the many teaching moments I’m thankful for during conference this weekend.

Brothers and Sisters, will you join me? One more day?
Don Gately more_vert
Don Gately
As they sometimes say in the 12 Step program “I’ll take another 24.” ✌