Post published by Youraveragelds

Have you talked to your Bishop about the situation? I'd schedule an appointment with him, he can tell you exactly what needs to happen next.

I agree. The Bishop is there to help you with these tough situations. I know that you will be able to stay PMO free if you do that.

This man needs all the help he can get, as members of this forum, we dont just refer him to bishop and be done with it.

I have sought help with my bishop when i was married, i was referred to my stake president and he gave me very helpful advice. I didnt remember their exact advice but i remembered their love.

There was a disciplinary action that time and you can guess hiw fearful i am if i was to be the person to be disciplined, i was the stake clerk. I learned the true weight of sin and its consequence

The ruling given is actually a call to repentance so that the person can be worthy again, i learned the healing power of the atonement and how Christ suffered for all is truly a miracle

My bishop told me that i will need all the help i can get, you can stay in this forum to fill your mind with light, in addition to tremendous light the church and its programs is already giving.

One question the bishop asked me is "what else can you do so you wont fall again?". So i watch videos and literature that can help me, i like this: https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/2012-06-2350-godly-sorrow-leads-to-repentance?lang=eng

And finally, the bishop is the one authorized by God to judge you. You cannot judge yourself in this matter. We cannot judge you. I hope this helps. (why is there a 255 char limit? XD)

Are you going to ARP? Have you talked to a therapist? Have you watched the Church's 12 Step videos? Do you know what triggered the relapse?