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Post published by Esteban
Please pray for my soul people and for God's discipline.
I had sex (without penetration just sucking...) with my girlfriend. It has not happened before even though there were already signs (like boob touching)
I feel so ashamed that I offended the Holy One God.
O so much remorse for my actions.
But I know repentance is moving on and turn my way so please pray that those actions may not repeat and that I would be so focused on God that I would seek his holiness.
Please pray that he forgives me for this hideous sin.
I am sorry to let you all down.
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sir_markus
Hey Esteban, hang in there. The important thing is not to fall into the trap of condemnation and dwell on that from now on... you are forgiven if you asked God to forgive you, but you also need to make conscious choices to stay pure until you guys decide if you want marriage or not.
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sir_markus
The best way to do this is as Thomas8 said - talk with your gf and make sure you guys set up some boundaries. It helped me with my wife, while we were dating. We were very clear about making out, petting and all that and did not allow ourselves to get in situations when that would be possible (i.e. being alone, kissing passionately and so on). Good strong boundaries are key. She, of course, needs to be in on it with you and understand the purpose.
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Roader to Freedom
Remember your fall, but most importantly remember how merciful God is to you. He still wants to have you by His side. It's a hard lesson, but be brave. I'll pray for you.
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