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Post published by sansham

Good morning all, I’m brand new to this site and only one week into my sobriety, I replapsed after a year or so of nothing but this relapse was bad and I plunged down the rabbit hole and almost lost my wife and daughter in the process. My last attempt at quitting was cold turkey without the aid of sites like this, I’m optimistic that using a forum like this will keep me on the straight and narrow because 19 solid years of porn has destroyed my mind and sex drive with my partner.
Truthseeker2403 more_vert
Truthseeker2403
Wishing you all the best brother, I am sure you can get everything back on track, welcome to this site
nelsonator more_vert
nelsonator
Hey man, I'm in a similar position just without a daughter. Been coasting off willpower alone but now I'm actually admitting I need help from something more than me. Hang in there brother. I'm with you.
sansham more_vert
sansham
I relapsed after a long period of nothing man. Finally admitting to my wife lifted a huge weight off of me to the point where if a stranger came up to me I’d open up. It’s therapy. You hang in there as well, our lives will get better!
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nelsonator more_vert
nelsonator
Yes indeed. I get that too. My last relapse happened whilst I was away from home (a few days ago) and I had terrible anxious dreams about my wife cheating on me. I woke up at about 5 and couldn't get back to sleep and felt massively anxious until I texted my wife about it. The weight that lifts after that is insane. Honesty is the only way forward. It keeps me grounded and accountable.
DocT more_vert
DocT
we are together bro.