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Post published by The Errol

I've an emotional struggling with Christianity since a boy. I can't think about God as really loving Father or so, though I had a very carying & lovable dad. And also I sometimes see the cross a defiance to us, more than something loving towards us. Thoughts?
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Nero Degurechaff more_vert
Nero Degurechaff
basically,you're having trouble loving God? If that's the case only God's words will help you change so just go to the church every week and you'll find your answer someday.
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Nero Degurechaff more_vert
Nero Degurechaff
You can also find answers in other places like nofap or in real life places. I was also the same like you last month, if you truly can't do so,just do good things and God will do the things.
The Errol more_vert
The Errol
I'm a Christian since baby (I was raised in Christian home), but life had its ups and downs. But yeah, I have problems loving God I think so. I go to churchurch and so on. But I think my problem is philosophical, may be.
The Errol more_vert
The Errol
Well... It's kind odd also. Because what you believe, led you to action, so... I had a lots of questions since young, some had been answered but other doesn't, and that affects my PMO behavior and also my beliefs about sexuality.
The Errol more_vert
The Errol
I have a normal life (may be) but I tend to be very skeptical sometimes. More because our post modernism and so. So that confuse me a lot. And because NoFap is kind secular, becomes difficult to share my perspective about this.
Nero Degurechaff more_vert
Nero Degurechaff
If that's the case,the answer will be very hard to find as philosophy also held me back at loving God and even now, the answer will be within yourself of what will you do in your life.
Nero Degurechaff more_vert
Nero Degurechaff
try to have it meaning as much as possible tho ,otherwise it's pointless.
The Errol more_vert
The Errol
Well I think yes. Meaning is the key, obviously. But in a world where suchildren thing is considered old-fashion is difficult to attach to it, regardless is the anwser. I don't know what to do, hahaha.