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Post published by Timeforachange!!!
Hey everyone. Welp, it happened and I relapsed. I wish I could sit here and say I was still good, but I messed up. What gets me on this is I was over halfway on my 90 days, it was after the halfway mark when my mind got fuzzy and I teased with porn all day until I finally did it and let it out. I am certainly upset with myself, feel like I let down my girlfriend and generally just feel like I have failed. However, I am going to do my best do get back on the horse and get off the PMO for good this time. For me and my GF, we are finishing are semester soon and what I think I'm going to do is to go for 40 more days on hard mode so I'd finish off around the same place I would have, go back to sex with no P or M. I know it's not exactly the full program but I don't feel as though I have lost everything with this reboot. I think if I can keep a strong mentality these next 40 days and remain completely PMO free, going back will still be good and I can stay off the PM for good.
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mychoppagoodwill
hey dude, i’m very sorry to hear that you relapsed. try coming up with a very specific plan you can act on to avoid the same mistake in the future. the relapse wasn’t for nothing if it prevents another one : )
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Timeforachange!!!
The relapse was not great it was like 2 in a row with sP and i had been fantasizing prior to it. I had my most vivid fantasies about it in between the sessions. I just deleted Instagram and other apps I had used in which I saw inappropriate material or would semi cheat in order to allow for a full mental cleanse.
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Timeforachange!!!
I found that a good method is to separate my sexual self from who I am as a person which I am trying to implement now. If I get sissy desires separating them from who I personally am and allowing time for them to fade should do me some good. And if somefetishes from it end up sticking around such as domination or anal play I don’t think that is necessarily a problem as role play is common in sexual situations, however I only want that to be the case if that is what I have a sexual interest in and is not the result of mindwarping from sP
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