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Post published by Mr Rn

Hi Everyone,

I am new to this site and i've been inspired by all the comments that tell me there is a way out. For real, living a life surrendering to your fetish is terrible for your productivity and can have you feeling guilty over and over. I personally have gone into the trap of watching SP after straight porn got too "boring" for me.

Now here is my question,

This is my first time starting, so i know i'm very prone to making errors and relapsing. I was wondering, after this "90 day" period of NoFap, could i be able to get back into straight PMO? [I am straight] Would i fall into the same trap again? In my eyes, it seems (fapping) such a dreadful thing to get rid of from your life completely. I would just like to recover from these triggers that are put into my mind and go back to my normal self.
I've also put the image that i am a "beta male" in my brain. I personally feel that in general, i'm socially capable, but my first interaction with porn was me being under a woman, i don't know how to tell myself i am an alpha male, but i would really like myself to believe that i am one.

Thank you for reading and i hope you're all staying strong :).
Maninsearchofasoul more_vert
Maninsearchofasoul
If you started PMO again, yes, you would fall into the same trap. Masturbating is not all that bad, it's porn that is. Also if you want to feel more masculine then I would just start doing masculine activities and hanging out with masculine people. If you come in with humility and truly ask for these people
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Maninsearchofasoul more_vert
Maninsearchofasoul
's comments, then you will find they are extremely nice people and not the type of people society stereotypes them to be. And I absolutely support any attempt to find more masculine hobbies. It is a great way to deal with this problem
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aliceal more_vert
aliceal
Pornografia não é natural. É normal você pensar que sua vida irá ser sem graça sem ela, mas será o contrário, será muito melhor. O efeito recompensa de seu cérebro está bagunçado é só vício que importa no momento, eu sei bem como é isso.
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