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Post published by SAL_VI

How can one learn of sex without porn? So many use it as reference
Tao Jones more_vert
Tao Jones
What are you wanting to learn? There is not much education needed, is there? :)
isaacgull more_vert
isaacgull
That's the problem with today's society... That they think everything with sex is associated to the hyper-sexualized environment around them. The best way to learn about sex in my opinion is just the biology of it, safety, and to remember that it is to be only for establishing a loving bond between partners and for the procreation of life. There's nothing really more to it, but people casually sexualize everything nowadays.
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frogs2345 more_vert
frogs2345
Part of it is instinct, and part of it used to be learning from parents. My parents taught me a little bit about it because I was curious as a kid. I didn't know the process, but I knew what it was supposed to be and what the result was. Nowadays parents are preempted by porn in trying to teach their children
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Tao Jones more_vert
Tao Jones
Parents have an obligation to safeguard their children from P. It cannot be avoided completely in the modern era, but its power can be largely nullified through clear and open communication, close relationships, and deep trust in one another. My sons are 15 and 13, and P is a thing that has come up, but it has been defanged and is not a significant problem in our home. May it be so more and more for many others, too!
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Healed! more_vert
Healed!
Sex is pleasurable, but we’ve made it all about “me”, seeking more and more pleasure. It was designed for the context of a permanent loving relationship where the partners are unashamed to explore one another’s bodies and discover how to bring pleasure to the other.
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