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Post published by Ajar

Whenever you fail, or screw up - never be down on yourself. Never feel angry, or hurt - because we have to understand that we are trying to fight against something that took years to build. It doesn't matter if you fail 1,50, or even 1000 times. The main point is that you keep going. That you brush off whatever emotions, or feelings you have, and honestly within yourself keep trying to the best of your ability. If not today, then tomorrow. Every step you take towards liberating yourself of these chains, is a step of progress that is not in vain. Even if you abstain from one day of porn, that is still ONE full day without porn. It is still some progress. We should definitely, clearly remember though of where we came from, and where we are going. If you used to Fap 8 times a day, then that is ground zero, that is where you work from - that is the low-point. If you want to progress than you need to work away from this low point. The further away, even if you fall, you'll fall miles from the low-point. Keep fighting guys. Its funny because we all contain the capacity to be Super. Life waits for no one, we need to do this today. Today is the day. Never wait until tomorrow, keep fighting for this change today. It is in your hands. Never give up.
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Ferritin
@superjbro97 be patient bruv. I dont know your longest streak buh its really difficult to stop and there's no ultimate and most effective way that works for er'body. I've gone 7,days and I'm proud of it. Its just 7 buh hey, I couldn't have been able to go 4days without PMO. Its a daily basis thing. Try not be alone all the time. Delete all porn stuff on your devices and handset , do not follow leads from ads online when you surfing the web. If dont have anything doing online dont just surf aimlessly, trust me, your end game is gon to get you PMO-ing
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superjbro97 more_vert
superjbro97
i have gone a week without one. when i went away for a holiday. as soon as i come back home bang i started to masturbate again.
I_Will_Overcome more_vert
I_Will_Overcome
Just joined today and honestly, this is the sort of message i needed to see. I have just set my streak and i am ready to fight this to end. As you said, we are all in this together. Moreso, during this unforeseen covid circumstances, we need to be strong and support each other as possible. We can and we will achieve whatever we have set our minds to.
Solemanlane++ more_vert
Solemanlane++
The same situation i suffer and the next day starts and the continued
Symbol of Peace and Rex salazar like this.
charlie_puth more_vert
charlie_puth
@Ajar wellsaid bro.. it feels so good to see al this motivation and help me to recover fast
Symbol of Peace likes this.
Marcus1431 more_vert
Marcus1431
Just joined today. I relapsed this morning and I hate it. I hate myself. Let us fight this demons together.
Success01 more_vert
Success01
Hello.. Please help me... I was studying.....then suddenly a femdom idea struck my mind... Now it is distracting me very much and pressurising me to do something which I do not want to... It is my 11th day of nofap...please help me relieve some pressure from myself.. I am 18 years old...
Symbol of Peace likes this.
Bat thunder 8 more_vert
Bat thunder 8
Just want to get out of this evil
And achieve my dreams .....
mkinley more_vert
mkinley
After an year of no pmo, I failed yesterday. This makes me feel like a loser.
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jard13 more_vert
jard13
Hey Brothers. Just wanted to give some encouragement! Yesterday I posted on my Instagram story, admitting to my addiction to porn. It was more anxiety-inducing than I expected, but i received some much needed support from ppl I love. I've had a bunch of temptations, believe me. But really wanting to not watch porn is the key. For me, admitting my addiction was another reason to not do pmo. along with the fact that it has hurt me and others. So stay strong friends! You are stronger than you know!
quit@porn more_vert
quit@porn
@mkinley , dont just fall back again, i did similar mistake. Once you fall it again take to much o time to bounce back. You have gained much by not pmoing for years, your have achieved much, just don't loose it by doing it again. Best luck brother
|SEMEN| more_vert
|SEMEN|
After relapse you can have a greater will power
I hate it_I love it more_vert
I hate it_I love it
....but without relapse, you will build up more will power that is much stronger
Mr_possible more_vert
Mr_possible
Hey guys.. im new here.. i just relapsed after 5 days. I think im making progress.
|SEMEN| more_vert
|SEMEN|
Nah bro that make things worse
Self_Made more_vert
Self_Made
Very well said, we have to stick to this but do remember to not fail the same. Rather, we must learn to fail better than yesterday, we must learn today what we did not know yesterday and always remember that today is the new day, this moment is the new moment.
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do3do3
i am new here and i am on my third day