Recent content by 85model

I love reading stories like this. I'm back to struggling hard. I really want to get on with my life, it just keeps dragging me back in.

Impressive stuff. Well done, that's amazing.

You have to be ready to accept porn is no longer part of your life and its damaging you. Sounds like your fitting that situation, so what's stopping you from helping yourself?

I'm by no means any sort of expert, but for me the main factors that assist me are: -understanding what feelings / behaviors are causing you to relapse and attempting to fix that issue -understanding when your danger periods exist and work on limiting your potential to relapse at That time...

I must admit, I feel my addiction has went on for a long long time. I'm in my early 30s now and since I started with porn when I was around 13-14, Iv always used it very often, I can recall at an age of 16 or so going 5-6 times in one night to various magazines! I don't feel it's stemmed from...

Thanks for the help guys. Some great points made and info here. Just need to put these tools into action now.

Iv been around the forums For about 6 months and Iv been up and down in my attempts to give up porn. I'm so over this shit. Honestly had enough of it, it's just this continual dark cloud that hangs over my head constantly. I feel somewhat helpless in what it has over me. I try to give up and...

Seemed like a fitting headline, but my question and discussion point is how one (me as an example) can go from no urges and 100% desire to not watch porn in the morning, then 2 hours later getting cravings and really wanting to act on them? Is it just the brain just trying to feed its needs...

Certainly some interesting points made here.

Iv been guilty of the quick porn check in also in the past. Stay away from this. Once you find something you like, which you no doubt will, you'll be drawn back in and its all over from there.

Something that I feel is important is not to get caught up in goals etc. by setting a goal of say 30/60 days, you're not going to be magically cured after that point. You have to make the decision to quit porn for good and move on with life. Once you realise how much it's ruining your life...

I find when I'm acting up a lot with porn I'm very cranky, snappy and more detached. I find it makes me less affectionate and a total sex maniac. It's worth trying for a few months to see how it affects you porn free.

Great job. I'm stoked for you.

It sounds like you need to kick thd habit and work on building a healthy relationship with your wife to be.

I think you need to work out what is more important to you? Porn or your fiancé? If the answer is your fiancé, that needs to be your driving force. Ultimately you need to WANT to give up porn for good, not just 30 days. I'd suggest keeping a journal, finding an accountability partner and...