Recent content by 8BitsOfStuggling

This is actually terrible advice. Filling an issue with a different issue just because it is perceived as good, doesn't solve anything. In fact, it does exactly what porn does, which is take something good like sex, and corrupt it.

There is certainly a learning curve with it. I would agree with you, time to drop it and move on. "OK" is not a sufficient response for me to ever want to continue, its not personal, it just shows a lack of interest. Don't worry about her and continue to work on yourself. As the one post above...

I would call her, if you can't be able to talk to her in person for a few seconds to ask her on a date, than how can you expect to go on a real date? There are two things that can stem out of calling her, well, three-ish. First, she answers, she respects that you are calling her. You explain...

Well... Let's not get ahead of ourselves. I respect encouragement, but at the same time there is such thing as bad encouragement. From what @elmo3334 you have told us, it sounds like it went well and you most certainly should have followed up with it sooner, so follow up with it now. Don't make...

Hi @Sunshinestar88, I read your story and it breaks my heart to read your story, yet I feel like so many of us here can relate on both sides of the spectrum. I have noticed a few people say it will get easier, that you're doing the right thing, and some advice how to handle the situation, so I...

Tonight at 10pm EST a new post will be going live on my blog specifically directed toward an insight I have learned in regards to pornography and sex addiction. I have dropped a teaser paragraph below. I would encourage you all to continue to fight! More importantly, constantly seek to...

I think the other thing to strongly consider is if you are still not making progress, you should look at finding professional help. I can gladly say that I will be starting with a professional counselor who is certified in sex addiction this coming week. Why might I do such a thing? Because I am...

My question is why people consider sexting NOT porn? How about sexual videos on youtube? What is the benefit for them? It is porn, its artificial sexual stimulation. If you are not ready to change, than you wont.

You don't need a blocker for your reboot, but it helps to have one. Interestingly, one of the advantages of having a wife is that by having sex with her, it also allows you to teach yourself what healthy sex is again. But remember, having sex will induce sexual thoughts, which in turn can make...

I encourage you to look at my post here. You cannot control a wet dream, if it happens again, then so be it.

This conversation actually has posed itself as quite comical to me. Why you ask? Because of the semantics that is being debated. Who cares if he touched it, held it, or what. @EnlightedSoul, the thing you need to recognize with your healing is that only you can define what is an actual relapse...

If you are focusing on when you will flat line than your approach is built on a foundation that will fail. Try looking at your progress as a positive aspect and quit looking for the flat line to come in and decimate your drive. Some people look forward to flat line, others dread it. But in...

Or he has porn induced fetishes.

Or... Just have sex before you fast for 2-3 days for ovulation. You don't have to have a "porno" sex life. If you guys don't look at sex as a means of procreation and more about marital intimacy, it should seem a lot more appealing. Right now, you guys are making sex a job, and jobs get boring.

My question for you is one I am shocked to not have seen proposed yet. Everyone is focusing on the morality of MO in this situation. My question is, why are you jumping to MO instead of just sex. You have a wife, who isn't pregnant and therefore from the information I know - it's safe to deduce...