Welcome to the Heirs of the Sun, we are a serious and dedicated group. We will help you on your path towards ridding yourself of this addiction. Best of luck on your journey, Soldier.
i am male at 25 and at my 21 day and need to complete my 90 day free can we be acountability partner for each other
You are either are predator or prey of your thoughts. If you are currently a prey don't identify with that identity. Create a new identity.
Never expect your emotions to align with your new self. Your emotions are aligned with your old self. They meant to hold you in place.
However, sexual arousal is an inherent part of us. Human beings are meant to be sexually aroused. So unintentional sexual arousal isn't something that is detrimental and shouldn't be something that we should suppress. Instead, accept as a part of who you are. Self compassion goes a long way. You don't have to feed it but you shouldn't hate it either. Just accept it for what it is. A part of you.
Nice words. Let me just add it is entirely possible to fully transcend that part of us and enter into the Divine state of consciousness if we so choose. But yes excepting that sexuality is a part of our human nature is natural, just don't intentionally go seeking arousal while rebooting!
Take control of your life. People who are successful create their own opportunities. Success is slow and hard work, just like NoFap.
Internal motivation: Based on values [] external motivation: Based on threats and fears. What kind of motivation do you have?
Reading the success stories has been the best motivation I've found, because it seems to offer, simply a bigger, longer pleasure than that which I'd been seeking in PMO. It's like a smooth transition. How about yours, atak?
It is about self-love. Somebody who loves himself won't be a drug addict or whatever. Drug addicts hate themselves and only go for pleasure. Somebody who loves himself won't go for short term hedonistic pleasure.
The paradox in life:the emotionally hardest things to do is necessary to have a comfortable life.As Fapstronauts we understand this paradox.
Only one thing is certain in life. We are all going to die. On my deathbed I don't want to have regrets so I will never PMO again.
